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Submitted by septembers_child on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 4:31pm

I just wanted to say thanks to everyone on this board and who gave me their two cents worth! We moved here to Germany about 6 months ago and all my friends and family are back in the states..So I have NO ONE here to talk to about things. All of you are appreciated more then you know!!

So...I confronted hubby about the incident today. At first he tried to say that she "sent it to everyone". No she didn't because it was only his email address in the "To:" section of the email...And I told him that...(In other words he tried to lye to me.)

Then he changes his story and says that he walked into the office and saw the "joke Picture" on the screen. He says HE asked her to send it to him so he could show it to me..

He also says that he didn't "give her" his email address..HE instead typed his email address in the "To:" section himself for her to send it from HER email address to his. And that She has nothing to do with this because HE asked HER to send it to HIM...Hmmmmmmm.....

The story stinks to me on a few levels..

I find it a bit wierd that he didn't just send it to MY email address from HIS if HE wanted ME to see it...Especially, considering that he and she BOTH know that I don't like her!!! I don't know the story just doesn't make any sence...

The end result of the conversation was when he told me and I qoute

"NO OTHER WOMAN I HAVE BEEN WITH would ever have had a problem with that." Excuse me???? And yes, he fails to see and he "doesn't understand" why That comment would piss me off even more!!! (This is a 36 year old man. Not a 19 year old kid with limited to no experiance with females..)

Needless to say I was so mad, pissed off, and fuming that I just looked at him, grabbed my purse, the car keys and left to cool off at my favorite "haunt". And Boy did I "get even" with HIM! Yep I fixed his little red wagon real good!!

At my favorite "haunt", I bought myself THREE new books instead of my typical One Book..And I bought the most expensive cup of coffee that they had!!LOL...I tell you what the FOOL is lucky that I am not a drinker like step kids BM is!!

I came home after the kids came home from school and I have been decent (for the kids sake)...After the kids went to bed he comes to me talking about how he is going to be late getting home tomorrow and didn't know what he was gonna do about SD's homework..I told him that "Sounds like a personal problem but I am sure some "OTHER WOMAN" wouldn't have a problem helping her with her homework." (Too-Shay..I cound't resist.)

At this point I am not sure which is worse..The whole email incident or his lying and then his comment about "OTHER WOMEN"..

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Submitted by Anne 8102 on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 4:36pm

Something is rotten in the state of Denmark. It's probably the skank with the bad phone manners.

~ Anne ~

Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice: Pull down your pants and slide on the ice! -M*A*S*H (Sidney Freedman to the OR staff on dealing with stress)

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Submitted by septembers_child on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 4:54pm

Oh and did I fail to mention....

After the incident with the phone call.. I only had her last name and I tried to search for her on "my space" just because I wanted to see if I knew her..But I only had her last name and didn't know how to spell it correctly..Nothing came up..

well well well..since I now had her first and last name from the email address I did another my space search...Low and behold their she was on my space.. Not only was she on my space..I recognized her all right..She was a friend of my husbands on my space at one point!!

I sign onto my husbands "my space" and she isn't on their anymore as a friend.. I honestly have no idea when he or she removed her as a friend because I honestly never noticed that she was missing off his friends list until I figured out who she was by looking at her picture on the search I did today. At any rate, I had NO idea that the girl that was rude to me on the phone was the same girl on his friends list..Nor did he ever bother to point that out to me!!

Now her profile is "private". Their is a picture of her flipping the bird..And it says "This is me" by her picture. So I asked DH why he NEVER told me that the girl I had an issue with was on his FRIENDS LIST..He says it never crossed his mind and he removed her after the phone incident.."out of respect for me"...

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Submitted by Little Jo on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 5:40pm

It's amazing what you can find out on my space. Just breath. I know you want to smack him. And Lord knows that's what I would have done when he made that stupid 'other woman' comment.

Sit back and see, if this bitch tries anything thing again and how he acts about it.

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Submitted by Little Jo on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 5:43pm

Your avatar is too much. lol. It always freaks me out alittle bit. My birthday is Halloween. I've never seen a pumkin puke!

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Submitted by septembers_child on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 5:50pm

LOL...My eldest daughters birthday is Halloween too..I love the avatar when I stumbled across it...It discribes PERFECTLY how I feel most of the time about my situation..LOL..Glad you like it!

By the way, is your avatar of a puppy basset hound??? I ask because right here next to me hogging more then his fair share of the couch is 75 pounds worth of drooley hangy baggy low riding basset hound!! LOL...

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Submitted by Little Jo on Wed, 03/28/2007 - 7:09pm

I love hearing about other 'weenie' babies. I admit it is a strange day for a birthday. I like it though. I guess it's me. My biggest joy on that day is the people watching and the kids.

The Avatar I use is a yellow Lab pup. I am a unlicenced vet tech. I have 8 years under my belt working as a vet tech.

If you ever have any pet health questions, please feel free to ask me.