BM calls at 5:30 raising hell to H about SS did not want to come he hates us and she cannot wait till he is 12 and can say that he hates us and does not have to come back. She then proceeds to go off about how H said something to her about ss not having food to eat when staying with the 13yr old sitter. BM was yelling and cussing. H told her if ss was not at the house by 6:30 he would call his lawyer and file contempt charges. She told him go ahead big boy and he told her he would he was tired of this crap it was his time with his son. So at 6:30 BM and her signifigant other pull up on the side of the road...usually they pull in the drive way. H goes out on porch and says come on son. BM says you are gonna have to come get him we cannot get him out of the car. H walks to the road and ss is in back seat squalling yelling I hate yall it make me want to puke to be hear get my dad John doe(BM's BF) whip him get him. H says boy I am your daddy well BM BF runs up on H and rares back like gonna hit him and H covers his face cause he thought he was gonna hit him in his face and BM looks at my H and says you need to grow some F***ing balls and steps btw H and he BF and then she says I am going to call the law and settle this shit once and for all and he will never have to come back. H tells her to go ahead and picks up screaming step son and carries him into house and step son telling us he hates us and makes him sick here and that his moms house is cool and the girls(BM's BF's kids are cool they were to go home that day but were staying an extra day) and he wants to get out of here before he dies. I tell H to let him go and we will call our lawyer as this is beyond ridiculous. So ss goes back out to road gets in the car smiles at us and waves. three cops pull up and BM yells I am the one who called yall. One cop comes over with H and I and the other 2 go over with BM and her BF. We tell our cop what was going on and then one of the other cops with BM comes over and says if it makes yall feel any better they are speaking very highly of yall and nothing but nice things to say. WTF!!! why did she call the cops then. Her BF rushed up on my H and H kept his cool and told the BF to quiet down and quite making a scene. So the cops pull ss out of the car and talk to him. SS tells the cops he love us and we are good to him but it is boring over here. All this talk goes on about 30 minutes mind you all neighbors out on porch watching. We tell cops to let SS go with BM that we gonna call our lawyer this is crazy he is standing out in the road crying and cops everywhere. They tell BM that H said ss could go. SS gets back in the car. two of the officers come up on our porch and tell H that they know what he is going through as they have ex's and kids with them. Very understanding. while talking to the cops BM's BF come up to porch and says he is your son and you have right to see him. H says to BF what am I doing wrong jsut tell me and BF said nothing I can see yall just fight all the time. I then jump in and tell BF well you are never there when BM breaks bad and brings up past and talks about all the old crap and what a happy marriage they had and you were not there earlier when she told H she wished he would die or ss would hurry up and turn 12 so he can say he hates us and never come back. he said no I guess not I get home and get her story and then come here and get yalls. H told the BF that the BM had the wool pulled over his eyes. So now BM walks step son up to the porch and says son your father has a right to see you and you are gonna stay and walks off. SS throws himself on the ground and officer tells H to take him inside. and all leave. SS lays in floor for 30 minutes yelling God help me! I am going to die, I hate it here, Mom come get me I want my mom. H told him to go to his room he did not want to hear it. Then told him I told you that you could go with your mom but she made you stay. We told SS not to come out of his room till he had quite crying and was ready to act like somebody and talk to us about our plans this weekend. H and I went out to grill. SS comes out and I am tore all to pieces crying. H is consoling me telling me he is so sorry he loves me etc. I disengage from SS for the evening. H sorta carries on like normal. I cannot do that. SS said that BM and her BF were mad at us cause we said something about what they had to eat and that BF said he wanted to whip his dad's a**. So SS was upset cause they were pissed and he did not want to turn on them for fear of what they would do to him and the girls were still there...still not an excuse. When SS went to bed I told him that I was so embarrased this evening that the cops were in front of my house and you were out in the yard and street acting the way you did. I told him it was not cool that the cops were here and I was very disappointed. He tried hard to hug my neck I did not hug him back but I did tell him I loved him no matter what. When H and I went to bed SS said dad come here I have to tell you something. later H tells me that SS told him that he was sorry for what happened tonight and sorry for how he acted. The next morning H and I outside doing some stuff I tell him I gonna get shower and get ss up to go get his hair cut. I get out of shower and tell ss time to get up got to get his hair cut. I go lay on bed cause I got hot in shower. SS comes in the bedroom gets in the bed and starts telling me how much he loves me, missed me etc. I told him to stop and I told him that I was tired of all of this him coming and telling us he loves us, misses us and likes being with us and then when with mom say he hates us and puts on show like he did last night. I told him that he needed to make up his mind if he wanted to be a part of me and his dad's family are not and quite playing games and be honest. I also told him I knew that he felt torn but he should not have to chose btw his mom and his dad that he should chose them both and love them both cause they loved him. I get up and get dressed ss gets up and gets dressed and tells me he loves me and has a great day. We have a great day Sunday and I was going to go to evening church and H was going to take ss to his moms but ss said I want to go to church with yall. H said well you have to call your mom and ask. SS calls his mom and says I am going to church with dad then he will bring me home. BM is yelling What What. H says son you do not tell her what you are going to do you ask her. So SS says can I go to church with dad and then he will bring me home and BM says do you want to go to church or come home is a snotty tone and ss says go to church and she said fine and then tells him she loves him and ss tells her what time he will be there. so during church ss is over huddled writing something and will not let us see it. when we get in car after church he says I wrote something and I want to read to yall can I read it now we said yes. this is what he read: I have fun at both places dads and moms, I love both of you, You are good parents, I love you dad, I love you mom, I love you (my name), I love you (BM's BF name), you are both my family and I love you with all my heart. He said and thats it I said is that how you really feel and he said yes ma'm and I said well I think that is wonderful but you need to be honest with your mom on how you feel or it will always be a fight. I asked could I have the paper he wrote and he said no that he needed it cause he was going to read it to his mom. He let me see it and it was so sweet some of the words were misspelled but he had drawn hearts all over it and wrote love all over it. we took him to his mom's and I could see the worry on his face about going and scared of what might happen. H hugged him before they knocked on door and H did not go in the house and BM was being all fake saying tell your daddy bye and hug him. I hope that SS did read what he wrote to his mom and I hope it touched her heart. I hope it will some how make her see that they way she acts about his dad influences her son so much. I hope she did not get mad at him or make it out to be stupid.

BM thinks what happened Friday night looked bad on H but I think it looked bad on her and her BF as he was the one that rushed H cussing and yelling and going to try and hit him and H kept his cool when I know the redneck in him was dying to come out. And the fact that BM bragged to the cops about us and she was the one that called the law. H is contacting our lawyer today!