YOU SHOULD HAVE TO PAST A TEST BEFORE HAVING A KID
BM what to say is a stupid f**kin b**ch, my DH has mediation today and of course BM never agrees to anything thinks she is going to win full custdy in DEC. eventhough she has moved 6 times in 2 years and has moved my SS daycare 9 times, she gets 600 a month in CS and they have split custody and placement. So I have a question who is able to claim my SS on taxes, my DH pays more for him for sure. She says she does not use the CS she just puts it into a savings, whatever, she only makes 26,000 a year. Why do I feel this way I remember when I was happy and not filled with rage, she makes me so mad, I want to stop and just love my DH, it has been almost 4 years, and my SS is only 4 so how do I move on and be happy with what I wanted. I do hate BM she has called my work and wrote a letter tring to get me fired and she has called DSS on me tring to get my foster daughter taken away, she also told me the first time I meet her she can't wait for my mom to die so she can have my DH back and my mom died 2 months later. My DH was never married to her which pisses her off because they were together 5 years and a kid and he never even asked her to marry him. We were together a year and nine months then he asked me to marry him, BM admits getting pregnant on purpose in hopes of keeping my DH, what to do, I want to be normal and happy again. Thanks for all you advice.
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Gee we have sort of the same BM
My BF went to mediation with BM ONCE. BM refused to negociate anything - she too wants sole physical and legal custody. In MN the courts don't give sole legal unless there are extenuating circumstances which there are not. We are waiting for the court to grant temporary support to BM and a temporary order for parenting time and custody. BM refuses to compromise on anything. Every time we thing we are making headway she stops and we are left hanging in the breeze. BF wants joint custody and shared parenting time with his BS1. I hope he gets it or at least more time with his son. BM was married to BF but she bought the ring and he never proposed, he loved her so he went along with her but did not know of all the baggage and skeletons in her closet or her families until much later. We are hoping her family history will help BF's case - sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and mental health issues run rampid in her family.
There is nothing wrong with hating BM, I hate ours too. You have a right to be angry with her and all her crap she puts you all through. My suggestion would be to take care of yourself and your needs for your own sanity. Sometimes you have to step back and breathe before you can move forward and deal.
i agree w this. i always say...
u have to be 16 to drive a car, 18 to vote, 21 to drink....BUT any IDIOT w genitals can go around breeding and bringing new life into this world. AMAZING.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
One of my favorite sayings
One of my favorite sayings is - "Some women should never have been born with a uterus."
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
Um, whose
tag line on ST is it that says..."just because you can have children doesn't mean you should", or something to that effect? To me, that says it all.
MJ24
hehe...that used to be mine.
hehe...that used to be mine. I just changed it. It was "Just because you CAN give birth, doesn't mean you SHOULD". That was soley inspired by BM. Three kids, none of them know their real dads. She's pretty much a lying cheating whore.
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
Didnt mean to take you line
Didnt mean to take you line I was just soooo pissed off, she is carzy and only cares about herself, but acts like her son is the only reason she lives, when really she only lives to get back with my DH, who I love sooo much. I just wish she was never in the picture.