And she lurkes here and attacks from time to time. I don't care though, I don't say anything bad about the kids, just her.

She can take that to court if she wants to.

I do remember one member though that was found by the BM and she made some friends here, some friends that the SM thought were hers. Ouch. So it was kindave a tug of war thing. I felt very bad for SM though.

~Happiness is defined by the smile on your face, not the frown on others.~

but she has written far worse things about BF3 and I in her blog so I really don't care !!! But a good thing to remember is you can delete your posts after you have had feedback. BF3 knows that he can read anything I post so he really doesn't care if she finds it. BF3 thinks since joining ST I am alot calmer (don't want to harm BM now) so he is really happy I have a place to go for advice and to vent!!!

I was blogging one night and I believe my SD 14 saw over my shoulder. It's not to hard to figure out who I am either. My daughters theme of her room is Tinkerbell, I love Tinkerbell, and my name is in my SN. Hummmmm............maybe that's not such good thinking on my part.

Make sure your avatar isn't anything anyone would link with you, and that your SN is different than your reg name! LOL!

I did mix some facts up though..........just to see what kind of response she would give out. It's been fun.

~Happiness is defined by the smile on your face, not the frown on others.~

I try to come on here when the kids are in bed or if I am on the laptop so the kids dont see this site, I have however been on here a couple of times and I do think my SD saw it but who cares. I have deleted my blogs but since she only calls BM when we are nearby, all I have to do is here her say one time about me going on this website and I will reach out to a select few of you who i feel i can trust and ask for advice or something.

I came across a very interesting website yesterday. I was looking for one site and found the one listed below.

www.spokeo.com

sign up for a free account and if you know anyone's email such as anyone you might try to get dirt on...it will bring up whatever sites they are signed up for, show you pictures, blogs...but just be careful because after so many minutes they will stop you from searching and ask you to pay a fee. So just know what your looking for if you choose to go spying and if you can copy and paste onto something you can go back and see later! Just a tip.

This topic comes up from time to time. It happens. I haven't heard of anyone ever having anything from here hurt them in court, though.

To every thing there is a season.

to sleep with, then yes, she would more than likely find the site.. If not.. I don't ever have to worry about her lurking here..

I'm only on at work and I don't mention the fact that I joined the site at home either. DH knows but the skids don't.

Honestly I could care less if she came on here and saw what I wrote. Everything is the truth so I'm not worried. I would however feel violated since I do share my feelings about my situations so I guess in that aspect it would bug me.

BM trolls the internet looking for stuff about DH and I. I'm also sure she has googled "step parent forums" to see if she could find any of my posts. Alot of my posts are about how DH allows BM to walk all over him which she would love to throw in his face to make me look bad. So to keep from being "found" I NEVER use real names and try to only give enough details to make my point. I also delete my old posts so BM can't put everything together. Now I could care less if BM knows its me BUT I don't want to give her enough proof to frame me with DH or the court system.

Than she would know what I really think of her

"He grew up in my heart, not my belly"