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Submitted by Stepmommy14 on Sat, 03/23/2019 - 5:49pm

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My husband was working today so I was home alone with ss all day. Not to mention that damn bm has been texting me all day because she thinks were friends one day and the next were not. Shes crazy. Anyway, I've been dealing with bm and ss all day by myself and what does husband do when he comes home... HE GOES TO SLEEP!!! like no I'm sorry, you dont get to take naps.. you have a kid. Ss is sitting right next to me right now because hes bored and cant entertain himself. Why is this my problem?! I just sent ss to go wake up husband and I don't even feel bad about it

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Submitted by sunshinex on Sat, 03/23/2019 - 5:55pm

Oh I'd be so annoyed. When DH and I were dating and I watched SD while he worked, he came home 2 hours late once and mentioned casually that he was having drinks with co-workers after his shift. I was livid. Like excuse me? You KNOW I have better things to do than watch your child and I've explained this many times, yet you thought it was appropriate to leave her with me for 2 extra hours so YOU could have drinks? Hire a god damn babysitter if that's the case. 

It's funny because now that we're married and have a baby, I really wouldn't mind him staying late to have drinks without asking me first because it's OUR child I'm watching. I mean, it's his daughter too... But she's older now and plays in her room so it's not a big deal. 

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Submitted by Stepmommy14 on Sat, 03/23/2019 - 7:30pm

I would have been so mad! Dh used to go play sports with his buddies every Sunday and leave me home with ss. I told him he was living on another planet if he thought that was going to fly anymore. He has since stopped doing that

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Submitted by SteppedOut on Sat, 03/23/2019 - 7:19pm

It's rude annoying and amazing how many people neglect their parental responsibilities, yet expect others to take them up because they are in a relationship with them.

 

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Submitted by Stepmommy14 on Sat, 03/23/2019 - 7:26pm

I'm feeling quite the resentment right now and I've talked to him about this before. I can't even look at him when he gets up. If I talk to him I will scream so I'm just not going to talk to him