I know there are a few members on this board who loathe me and probably can't wait to get in on the comment section and rip me to shreds, but I'll just take a risk and put this question out there anyway: how many of you find yourselves wishing tha t your stepkids were never born? Obviously, this isn't something that one can tell their spouse (or anyone else, for that matter)...Okay, go ahead, rip me to shreds now and tell me how "evil" you think I am. I'm ready...But, remember, this is supposed to be a place where stepparents come to VENT (and that is a loaded term)...