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Submitted by SugarSpice on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 1:49am

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i know one member understandable got a shock to hear dh call his ex the nickname baby.

with me dh calls the adults sds by the names baby sweetums and honey pie. he only ever calls me by my given name. he rarely if ever uses a nick name for me.

its so nice to know my true place in his heart.

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Submitted by Rags on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 4:30am

I can't fathom calling my XW by a nick name other than Landfill Crotch. There is no way I could refer to her in any redeeming way what so ever.

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Submitted by Orange County Ca on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 7:26am

Do you call him by an "endearment"? Just a thought. If not try doing it for a few months or a year.

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Submitted by SugarSpice on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 11:51am

yes i do call him by a nickname. in my case these little names are names of endearment. i am not dear to my husband so i only get called by my name. just like everyone else. the mini wives get the sweet talk and i get addressed like the maid or mere provider of pleasure. the latter he cannot get from the sds.

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Submitted by wth was I thinking on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 8:12am

Baby sweetums and honey pie? I'd be glad he didn't have one for me. :sick:

My DH calls all three of us 'mami', or 'mi amor'. He has gotten better about only using it for me (tbh I hate 'mami', but it's a Latin thing, whatever), and calling them by their names, or individual nicknames for them, however, OSD has the same given name as I do, so there's some confusion no matter what. :?

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Submitted by tiny kitten on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 8:46am

My SO calls me honey bunny because he likes Pulp Fiction.
I will not call him Pumpkin.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Fri, 08/22/2014 - 10:45am

Haha- I too am honey bunny because of Pulp Fiction. "Keep cool, honey bunny...." We love that movie. Blum 3

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Submitted by Merry on Thu, 08/21/2014 - 12:30pm

DH calls both me and adult SD "Baby." It's not a big issue for me and really not a nickname I even like for grownups, and not one he uses all the time anyway. But SD and I have fun with it -- "Who do you think he's talking to?" or "YOU answer that one, not me." Or we look at each other and neither of us answers. It was nice to find some shared humor.