Dh and BM had a suit down talk about bm moving sd into the school closer to dh.  But then when i was talking to my mom about it, sd over heard. She then proceeded to tell me that BM doesn't want to move her because it will beahke her class ranking go down,  and it's already low enough.  Sd didn't understand the words she's using,  so she doesn't know BM basically called her stupid, and i didn't want to over step and explainit to her,  but jeeze BM gave some faith in your kid!