Bossy BM
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Does anyone else have issues with BM constantly telling DH what to do instead of asking when it's her fault? "YOU'RE going to have to reschedule the appt", " YOU'RE going to have to find other arrangements", or better yet, "I will not tolerate you allowing that!"
She treats DH like a child! But from what I can tell, their marriage was much like that...
Yep. And it reminds DH of how
Yep. And it reminds DH of how much he hated being married to her
Cheers! Stay out of it, he'll grow some eventually and tell her where to shove it 
He's a quiet, laid back guy,
He's a quiet, laid back guy, and I think he just doesn't want to stoop to her level/start a war over a dentist appt or something.. But I just want him to rip her a new one for once!
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Oh yes. In our blended
Oh yes. In our blended family adventure it was Sperm GrandHag that attempted to be bossy and dictate what my bride would do. As my bride matured it was a joy to see her play Sperm GrandHag's idiot toothless moron ass. Truly enjoyable.
With you as his equity life partner DH will gain confidence and start handing BM her demanding ass on a platter and hopefully will have fun doing it.
Mu husband used to put up
Mu husband used to put up with this same kind of crap from BM, but he grew a pair of balls a couple of years ago. It's nice.
He was always afraid of what she would do to him, legally. I finally convinced him that she already has the most time she'll ever get with SD and the most money she can get out of him. There's nothing more for her to take.
Yes, BM is a bossy troll!
Yes, BM is a bossy troll! Always barking orders at DH. He ignores almost EVERYTHING she says and responds as minimally as he can. Works for us.
BM likes to demand that
BM likes to demand that certain things happen during SO's time. As of now he ignores all messages from her.