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You know guys, I feel bad am not a liar BUT I had to lie a few days ago about what BS1 and myself were "supposed" to be doing this afternoon. Why? Because before the normal song and dance of; "Can YOU pick up SS8 at school this afternoon?" OR, DH saying the stupid crap of; "SS8 wants to come over and play with his baby brother...", (which, BTW, is total BS) I nipped it in the bud early on and said that both, myself and BS1 would not be available because we were, blah blah blah, etc.

I suppose through the years that you learn to become a psychic with these types of parents. Truth be known, I AM HIDING from them today. I no longer worry about BM, DH, or SS8. I have my own baby to worry about and because of BM "games", using SS8 as a front to disrupt and try to get to MY DH, SOMEONE needs to pay a wee bit of undivided attention to this precious baby boy here who is literally, a miracle story himself.

Like I said, I am an honest person but a mom (and a stepmom) does what she must do to keep her sanity. I'm using the excuse of, "I'm too tired or, I just don't have the energy anymore having BS1 24/7 to watch YOUR son, DH."

That's the truth. As a BM myself of over TWENTY YEARS, starting as a young teen, these so-called bios really need to mature and quit playing so many kiddy games back and forth with one another, their spouses, their kids and quit messing the minds up of innocent bio bystanders in their wakes.

I'll do what I have to do. So should everyone.

Oh yes, and since BM is now a SM, she is getting a 100 fold of her own medicine as of late including HER DH's ex-wife claiming that she has allowed her stepkids to be eaten up by... FLEAS in her home. I believe it too after cleaning up after her nasty, dog pissed, carpet torn dog house of a home. I mean, NASTY.

Karma, BM. ... Now, let us play "nice." }:)