DH is mad at a Step Mom
I can't make this stuff up. My DH is mad at SD almost 17's boyfriend's Step Mom. I totally side with the step mom so I sort of blankly stared at my DH while he was venting.........he just doesn't get.
SD and her BF, as I've mentioned before, do not drive......so BM and DH transport them all over to spend time together. BF's parents NEVER do......I have picked up on the hints over the month from the actions of BF's parents that they don't want SD at their house 24/7........and I don't want this boy at my house....ever...really. So basically DH has been saying no the BF coming over b/c I put my foot down....so SD stopped coming over as much....b/c BF goes to BM's.
OKay.....so here is the story...
BF invited SD to his sports banquet....the two had it all planned that SD would go home with him after school and ride with his parents to the event and his parents would bring her home. WRONG........BFs step mom told him no she could not come over after school or ride with them and that if she wanted to go to the banquet she could find a ride to and from. Okay, so of course DH makes 2 round trips to get her to BF's sports banquet and pick her up.........but when he picks her up after she is standing there alone as BF's family has already left.....like literally left her standing there alone after she attended this to support the BF....
Add to this also, that it cost $5 to attend this banquet.......and BF's step mom told the kid that under NO circumstances is he allowed to buy SD's ticket and she must buy her own.....BF told SD that she forbid it and said he'd be in big trouble if he bought her ticket.
Come on guys.....how does DH not see that the BF's parents were basically saying that SD should NOT come to the banquet. Obviousley they can't forbid it b/c any student can attend with a ticket......but they made it very difficult for her and clearly left her high and dry immediately after.
DH can't see this?? Now he's mad at the step mom...and hates her.....he hates her b/c she doesn't cater to this high school relationship I guess. I had to bite my tongue....b/c I wanted to say...."dude, his parents don't want her there.....don't send her"
What do you all think?