Is this disgusting or am I just blinded by my hate for BM???
BM is a 27 year old mother of 2 (her youngest is with my SO). I'm not sure how familiar you all are with this, but there's a man named Hunter Moore who is "famous" on twitter and other social networks for starting a "revenge porn" website where you could submit your ex's nude photos (or girls who were desperate for attention could submit their own nudes...) that got shut down for obvious reasons. He has what he refers to as his "family," which is just girls who want to bang him and be used by him and guys who want to be just like him. He tweets pictures of the girls he hooks up with naked and with lines of cocaine on their bums and pouring alcohol on their girl bits. Anyway, BM is like obsessed with him. She follows him on twitter and tweets about how badly she wants him to do a line off her butt and all this crap. She tweets to him basically on a daily basis about how she wants to sleep with him and whatnot. She has "#thefamily" in her bios on twitter and instagram in attempts to gain more attention by this man and his followers. She has started posting half nude photos of herself tagging his name and the "family" and just over all being disgusting. Am I being wicked judgmental by thinking this is just trashy and not something a mother to two little girls should be doing? I literally can't tell if I am just blinded by hate and think everything she does is nasty or if this is really just not right. What do you all think?
Triple nasty. Ew.
Triple nasty. Ew.
It's trashy, but you
It's trashy, but you shouldn't be looking at her twitter profile.
You're right; I shouldn't.
You're right; I shouldn't. But it's such a train wreck and it's so hard to look away sometimes.
Just curious, in which ways
Just curious, in which ways can documenting this come in handy?
Right, but how so? Will they
Right, but how so? Will they possibly be able to find her "unfit"? There currently is no custody order between SO and BM but he is in the process of getting it started (they're working out child support issues currently then moving on to custody). How can this help his case? Can't she use the "I don't do this in front of my kids so it's ok" excuse?
Thank you; just the answer I
Thank you; just the answer I was looking for!
What a great example BM is
What a great example BM is setting for her girls.... Just gross.
Sounds like you got a
Sounds like you got a supersized side of fries honey boo boo trash a doodle of a BM on your hands.
Oh boy!!!
Boundaries. Stay as far away as possible and find out as little as you can about her. You don't need all that negative energy entering your life. I allowed it for a while and now I am blocking it ALL.
That is such dark stuff.
The courts won't do shit.
The courts won't do shit. The courts don't care. All they do is look at income levels and punish those that work and reward those that do nothing. These woman have to kill someone or do a felony charge before you MAY get some court action and get the kids until she gets out of jail and they restore the kids back in her custody so she can continue to undo the work you have done.
I am sorry, but, I have lost all faith in the legal system, counseling system to do "anything" about screwed up parents that don't follow the basic custody agreement that says "work together & do what's best for the kids".
And when the kids are all screwed up and don't know which way is up - then they go to the counselor and slam the person that actually cared and was doing the best things for them because that person is a step parent.
Blood runs thicker than water. Step parents will never be real parents. And that is just it.
When a step parent DOES make a difference in a kids life (and this can happen so I say still try) it is wonderful
But you all have a 50:50 crack at this.