Ex getting back together with BM!
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I have got to get this off of my chest! Read my posts for backgroud info, but for a quick catch up here you go: My ex and I JUST split up, I JUST moved out and he was still telling me things like he needed space but he wanted to work things out, we still met up a few times but I stopped when he was clearly just using me for sex. I have not talked to him in 2-weeks. I heard yesterday that he is getting back together with BM! Are you kidding me? After all that bitch has put him through? I'm at a total loss for words. I guess I was still holding out some sort of hope that we could work things out; this just set everything in stone. I'm really upset.
I am so sorry. Obviously you
I am so sorry. Obviously you are better off w/out all this drama. Move forward, and don't look back
Thank you windee. I am very
Thank you windee. I am very upset. I guess I should just realize that in the end, they deserve each other. It's still a shock though. He changed SO much after tossing me to the curb, but I kept holding out hope that I would see him again, that somehow he would come back and be the man that I fell in love with. I feel so stupid right now. I wonder if he ever even existed. I wonder if everything he ever said was a lie. I know I'm better off without him, but it still hurts a lot.
This used to be my worst
This used to be my worst fear, back in the day. I feel for you, I really do. I know it sucks, and I know it hurts, but you will be okay. If he can willingly back into something so toxic, then they DO deserve each other.
Maybe it's better all around. He can get his family back together and his kids will have their dad fulltime. His finances might be better (no CS).
And then you.... think about how many headaches you will have avoided. How many BM/SM fights. How many sleepless nights. The WORRYING about this kind of thing. The worst has happened, he has gone back to her. He did you a favor. Now you can get on with your life and start your own family with a man that wouldn't treat you like you are disposable, and a man with less baggage.
Sweetheart, he has done you a tremendous favor. And when you find the guy you BELONG with, send the ex a pic and a thank you card.
~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~
nice! "There are two things
nice!
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
Omigod, I think I just peed
Omigod, I think I just peed myself laughing, Crayon. Hilarious!!!! (and very wise advice)
"If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they will kill you." ~Oscar Wilde
I think I would vomit on my
I think I would vomit on my own shoes if DH went back to her. I used to fear this A LOT... truly... if he is that LOW, then he doesn't deserve you anyways. Something like this would only make it easier for me to move on. YUCK. I am so sorry.
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~
Girl, do you know what kind
Girl, do you know what kind of BASS ACKWARDNESS it would be for DH to go back to Gasolina? I once asked him if we broke up would he consider going back to her...
He just looked at me with a dead stare and in the most QUIET voice I ever heard him use, told me to, and I quote "Shut the FUCK up."
Lmao sealed the deal for me.
~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~
I don't fear it anymore...
I don't fear it anymore... the crap she has pulled over the past 5 years... he would have to be smokin somethin REEAAALLL good for that to happen. Of course her newly contracted STD's kinda put my mind at ease as well. DH don't want any part of that mess!
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~
Oh yes - like they got along
Oh yes - like they got along so well the first time? This is probably to see the kids, and stop paying child support.
It sucks honey and be prepared, for him to try to come back to you too-!! They always do.
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“Learn by practice.” - Martha Graham
Funny you should say
Funny you should say that.... BM was dating a married man recently. She and the wife of this married man have hated each other for about 20 years. It was some serious Jerry Springer sh*t. Then this man, about a month later, went back to his wife... whoooooooooo that didn't settle with BM very well. This was all around Christmas week. This man and his wife, are now split up... AGAIN. You can't force what is not meant to be. Some people never learn.
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~
Hi L-I-R, I know it's a hard
Hi L-I-R,
I know it's a hard thing to deal with from your where you're standing. This dude has no balls or spine; and being back with her makes his life easier. He still has no balls or spine because she has them kept safe and locked up, but he appreciates that he can now at least enjoy the smell of them once in a while, and not have to work to reclaim his manhood. I know how hard it may be to really grasp it now, but he is doing you a favor.
BTW, I did tell my ex "Thank you" to his face. "It was a shitty way to do it, but thank you for ending the misery because I wouldn't have"
Crayon, you crack me up! But
Crayon, you crack me up! But I didn't understand; are you saying that I 'shouldn't' date men with children?
LOL
I am still in shock today. Eveyone always says that time heals all; and I know it does, but these past 4 or so days have been terrible! I haven't spoken to soon to be ex in 2 weeks and would think this would be getting easier, but it's not! I feel like such a cry baby here, but it huuuurrrrtts!!
The best revenge is living
The best revenge is living well. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and hit the ground running with your life. He just did you a huge favor, and repay him the favor by making the best of it...
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Rome wasn't built in a day, and my marriage won't be either.
Hello, I'm so sorry that you
Hello, I'm so sorry that you have to go through this! What is happening to you is my greatest fear... It's almost like the good hubby, who get cheated on and left by the BM's have a much higher likely-hood of getting back with them. Such crazy folk.
Tell me...did you sense this was gonna happen? Or did it take you by surprise?