Hello... Im new to this site... Been with my fiance for 5 years.. And in his kids lives for about 4 years... His son is 10 his daughter is 8.. Up until 4 months ago the kids and i were best friends.. Had a incredible relationship with them.. My husbands ex wife is unstable. She is a narcissist and is multiple personality disorder... She has been horrible to kids and been bashing me to them since day 1... But kids never fell for it... She has told them how i egg her house has threatened to kill her ect... My finace has tried to bring her to court but she had to courts fooled.. Kids have said they hate their mother shes so mean to them they wish i was their mommy and we have explained how it would hurt their moms feelings if she heard that and she loves them very much and