Ok i will try to make this as short as possible...
My 3 children and i live with my boyfriend of 2 years. He has a son with someone else. His ex was very unhappy about him moving on and has been using his son as a pawn. Denying visitation and all that. So he went the legal route and that has seemed to make it worse. Her saying his son doesnt want to be here with my kids. When really it is the other way. He is bored when it is just the 2 of them and asked when my kids are coming home. But she gets him to say to court appointed people that he wants more time with his dad. Which i understand but he has never said he didnt want my kids around. Well lastnight was supposed to be just the 2 of them but my kids father said he was sick and could take them. So they were all here. Well she ran into him at the bar. And all hell breaks loose and now she isnt sure he should be here if mine are going to be. I am just at my wits end with her brainwashing their son and her trying to make me feel unwanted in my own home. Not to mention the financial issue by her changing her mind and him paying for more visitation counseling. Anyone know what i can even do?