"He doesn't even all you at his house"

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BM kicked SD, age 19, out of her house, again. SD sent DH a long chat message that BM had sent her. Of course, SD doesn't send what she said to BM but only the last comment that BM said to SD. I am still trying to understand why they do not talk to each other, they are in a small 2 bedroom home.

DH showed me the chat. BM goes on a rant to inform SD that DH doesn't even allow her to come over for visits and the I am the one in charge of this household. It is true, SD isn't allowed in MY house. She hasn't been allowed since she started lying and calling social services when she couldn't get her way (long story short). She was probably about 12 years old when DH started seeing her outside of my house. DH could see her anytime he wanted, he just wasn't bringing her here. I wasn't sacrificing my children and myself. SD would have loved nothing more than to put me in jail or lie about one of my chidlren.

BM had placed SD in multiple group homes. At the age of 7, SD was calling social services on BM. She was trying to control BM.. SD would go into rages and start throwing things and hitting people. She lied 3 times about being raped. The strangest thing, no one but me remembers the first two rapes.. She was so-called raped 3 times in an approximate 15-month span. She would invite the boys over and then she would say that she was raped. She didn't want to call the police until DH pushed her. The police were called on the last rape. She never stopped bringing boys over to BMs house. SD has had two opportunities to go to college for free. She blew both of them. The first one took a little over a semester to be kicked out of school and the second one took three weeks. In Elementary, middle school, and high school, she was suspended at least twice a year.

It just amazes me that BM has tried everything possible to get SD out of her house BUT is terribly upset that I succeeded. I think BM is really upset that I have everything she wants, drama free, quie,t and peaceful home.

SD is now living with a guy that she met online a few months ago. She called DH crying a few days ago. She misses her dog. I am taking bets, How long will it take SD to be kicked out of boyfriends house?

BM made that monster and didn

BM made that monster and didn't get her under control when she could, now she has to deal with the mess she made.

Your DH won't go do anything stupid like try and convince you to give her another chance will he?

I put up with a lot when it comes to my SS but CPS has always been the game over for SS never being allowed back.

BM really just needs to tell SD that she can't go back there either, sorry, she needs to get a job and figure it out. Find a cheap apartment or room to rent.

OH NO

Dh will NOT convince me to let her in my house. BM should have had her under control. I agree she should not allow her back either. She will though. BM doesn't understand why she can't have a peaceful home.