I had a dream last night that was very real and I HATED IT
So my dream BM was over in our back yard talking to DH, and she held his hand... I said, "excuse me, please don't touch my husband" DH did nothing... I told DH I did not like it, and that he needed to make her let go of him... but then she took him to the front yard. I went inside, fuming! Then they came in, and BM said to me "don't worry, we didn't make out" I explained to my husband that it was about boundaries, I wasn't worried that they were "going to make out", that we both HATE BM, that he doesn't hold his friends' hands, that I don't hold my guy friends' hands, why would I hold hands with someone that I HATED? Then I mentioned he wouldn't like it if I held hands with my exes.
I know this was a dream, but I just needed to vent, because I could TOTALLY see this happening IRL.... my husband is a moron sometimes, like he would feel like "well, what m I supposed to do? yank my hands away and say 'don't touch me' like a child?" YES! if you don't want someone touching you, you back up... duh!
Sorry, thanks again for letting me vent!
My husband is super friendly
My husband is super friendly and wants to be BFFs with every new person he meets male or female. I've had to tell him to back it off sometimes because he comes on very strong. If he wants to hang out with a new couple or a new guy it's okay but when it's a woman it really comes across like he is hitting on them.
Once he was trying to get a female co-worker and her family to hang out with him and his family (me) and she kept being friendly but declining. I had to explain to my own husband that this woman was not interested in being his friend. Super awkward.
He does have good physical boundaries though. If he goes out without me it's only with other male friends and not a mixed group.
The last time I was mad at him for a dream was when in the dream he told me he had to go to work instead of help me bury a body!! Lol what a dream that was.