Don't get me wrong I LOVE LOVE LOVE my husband. But I'm so over all of this crap with his son and his ex. I can't do anything right with the BM and this kid is an absolute horror if you're not constantly watching him. DH and I got married quickly as I was pregnant and had I truly known what all being with him would entail I'd seriously reconsider it. We have a son together and whenever SS3 is around it's as if I'm a single parent. Then we've got BM blowing up the phone all weekend. Last weekend she sent us an email saying SS3 told her that he didn't like it at our house and that we weren't taking care of him because we didn't feed him and blah blah blah. Hello kids make up things. Does it look as if we starved him all weekend... of course it doesn't. I got him medicine because he was super sick and I stepped on her toes as a mother. WTH? This kid isn't the problem- its his damn mother. She accuses us of molesting SS3 and whenever she bought a new car and then told us she couldn't afford SS3 surgery and we questioned her she had her husband threaten my DH and threatened a restraining order because we called her a bad mother (she's an idiot). She's constantly bringing up how fat I am... I just had a baby 2 months ago... the weight will come off. And seriously I could care less than to make a comment about her looks. But its always something with her.
DH acts as if things are all supposed to fall together and it is all supposed to be so easy. HELLO? getting married young and early makes things hard. Having a kid early in the relationship makes it hard... blending a family makes it hard. And we have all three but no effort put into our relationship. It'll never work. He wants to take ss3 on vacation with me and i told him absolutely not. At this rate SS3 will never be my family because I can't do anything without trouble. I love my husband but this is easily the hardest thing ive ever had to deal with. And at this point I'm so over it.