So, when my husband and I initially met. I knew he had a 3 y/o. The kid was cute, really good and behaived until his mom found out about me. She was pregnant at the time, so there are 2 kids in the mix. She took away the kids from my husband, and was arrested for assulting him in front of them. She also called my phone over 45 time in one night (several times) to make a point that I will never be the mother of her kids. It was getting verbally and physically bad for us and the kids. So, my husband gave up custody for the sake of the children. (He doesn't know if the younger one is his, so we're finding out paternity. & the other kid, is not biologically his, but, because BM was prostituting when the 3 y/o was a baby, he claimed him in court 3 times before even establishing paternity) Well, now the kids are in CPS and he's fighting to take them in. I have absolutely no problem with the children. It's their mother that I cannot deal with. She has the older kid calling me a "bitch" and a "hoe" and other outrageous things, good thing the other kid is a little over a year so he doesn't really understand.. But, when I speak to my husband about it, he tells me it's not their fault and that they'll get over it in time. Well, I support him taking in the kids, but, with out me. I want to get a divorce because I can't deal with their mother. She's a drug addict and she's very aggressive. She is still in love with my husband, so when she had his number, she would constantly send naked pictures of herself. So, he changed his number, and attempted to file a restraining order, which didn't work, because she harassed me at work. We've had to relocate because of her, and change our numbers. I'm not ready to deal with it all over again. I feel sorry for him, because the courts won't do much for him because they have to keep some sort of contact due to the kids. Am I wrong for wanting to leave?