I thoroughly enjoyed my 1st daily vacation without sd in 10 years.  Everyone was able to relax, play games, and have fun!

We just got back today, and i know DH misses sd, he hasn't seen her since she left the beginning of his extended possession time with her. He's tried to take her to lunch/ dinner with her this whole time, she's declined every offer,  until today when he's asked. I hope it makes him feel better. 

I know he misses her, but i wish he wouldn't send me tik toks that remind him of her.  He just sent me one and i literally feel grossed out.  It was of a little 6 or 7yo who thought an old man was Santa, the mother convinced this old man to pretend to be Santa to entertain her daughter.  Wtf? Why is this cute to people?  Why is it cute to encourage that type of entitlement?  Why do complete strangers need to bend over backwards to entertain YOUR child? And yes, this is exactly SD and how life has been for her.