So I have had to deal with the crazy BM/ex-wife for the last 3 years and since April I have really been pressing the issue with the cops as far as her harassing me and my children. The state police instructed me back in April to send her a certified letter telling her not to contact me or my kids through any means and also not to text my boyfriends phone calling me or my children names. She signed for it. Well since April she has continued to text him consistently and use racial slurs towards me and my kids and also threaten to hurt me physically. In August, I was told I had enough to press harassment charges. The trooper told me I'd get my papers in the mail. I waited and waited and nothing. Last week, she went off in a tangent because she found out I took their youngest to soccer practice and had gotten some papers in regards to the team. I gave them to my boyfriend to give to her, which we did by sending them with the boys on the drop off day. Apparently she didn't look in the bag. Either way, she went off about how I'm not his mother and shouldn't be in her kids business and next time I'm at one of the practices or games and he's not with me, shes going to tell me to leave…blah blah blah. My boyfriend told her to get over it, I'm going to be in their lives regardless and good luck telling me to leave a public place especially since we already have pending charges. She responded by saying, "Oh, didn't the police tell you they dropped the charges?" Needless to say I was FURIOUS! I went right into the station and asked to speak to a supervisor. After an hour of back n forth he basically told me that there is nothing I can do, my certified letter doesn't mean shit. I can't tell someone not to talk to a third party about me and since she's only "saying" shes going to hurt me and hasn't done so, I can't do anything about that either. AWESOME! The supervisor even had the nerve to ask me, do you read all his texts??? Um, he tells me because we thought this whole time we had a case because 4 of your state troopers told me I did!!!! Asshole. Ugh. How frustrating! I'm so over our police department and once again she's laughing at us. I told him, we are going to end up in a physical altercation and it's going to be in front of children (because thats the only time we see each other) and don't you dare try to press any charges on me! Thankfully, we have a court date on the 27th because we are re-doing custody and we will now have to specifically put in it that she is not to ask, discuss or name-call my boyfriend, myself and my kids. It sucks thought because if she continues to do it, we have to spend more money filing contempt charges and paying our lawyer to do so! Sometimes the system just baffles me.

On a happier note, she used to be an RN until she got fired from the hospital because she was stealing pills and now I'm told she put in an application to be a waitress. I had to chuckle because when I first got together with her ex she used to make fun of me because I was a waitress and she'd always say I would never be anything but a 30 year old smelly waitress! I now have an awesome office job and she's applying to be a waitress! Karma is coming for her and I hope shes strapped in, gonna be a loooong ride!