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Well, just as I completed the post about nothing much, something much pops up on my phone.

A text on a DH-Family text thread.

SD22 Feral Forger screenshotted a series of messages between her and Toxic Troll.

Heres the playback:

SD22 Feral Forger: You promised youd take me your my mom itsyour job to help me feel ok and you promised to take me to spine and joint and im gonna be really upset with you and dissappointed in you for not taking me if you back out of your promise because you said you care but you obviously dont. They close at 5 not 7.

Toxic Troll BM: Wow. Disappointed in my drunk, drug using pill popping a$$?

Feral Forger: I never said that did I?

Toxic Troll: Oh, meth too

Feral Forger: Your just trying to fight so you can see me in more pain and not take me. You dont care. You promised to take me today.

Toxic Troll: I have garbage to take out when I get home.

Feral Forger: And you obviously dont care about my pain, or if I end up in a wheelchair and if I do end up in a wheelchair, youd probably just push me nto the ocean to drown, because you dont care aout my well being.

You are right! right off the XXX pier you go. No one would ever know...and me being on meth....temporary insanity

No wonder you always tell me to get a knife and get in the bathtub you want me dead.

(something was said here....)

So are you. You dont care about me.

ou are right.

You just care about your precious youngest.

You are right. I told you.

Im done caring. over your bs. Move out. You have 5 f@cking days. Be gone u rude b!tch. Dont want to ever see u again. Thats the mother I am. F@ck u.

***************** To DH family: So I got hurt falling down the stairs last week and my "mother" promised today she'd take meto the doctor to get seen for spinal nerve damage because my limbs and spine keep locking up and making me fall.. Dont treat your kids like this. She shouldve never been a mother. She threatens to beat me and kill me 24/7 and shouldve honestly just aborted me if she wasnt ready to be a parent or if she was intending to treat her kid like this. she just said I deserve to be in a wheelchair she wants me to kill myself and she never wants to see me again. She called so I couldnt show any messages. Calling me again to say Im a stupid piece of shit and worthless and wants me dead saying she shouldve switched me with another baby.what a great f@cking mother.

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Folks. I want to have sympathy, but to me its just more and more drama. And if shes really and truly hurt, I do sympathize, but according to SD15 backstabber, shes doing this for attention and not really hurt.

Please give me the strength to not fall into the sympathy trap and to stand strong if she begs and pleads to move back into my home.

Oh, call a waaambulance.

Oh, call a waaambulance. More drama. Next week they will be besties again.

On a side note, I'd love to see what SS21 and BM argue about. He sometimes reaches out to DH when they are fighting. I do know that once they argued for 2 hours about ice cream.

This is all part of their dysfunctional dance.

For entertainment

ive asked SD15 backstabber what FF and TT fight about. She said its mainly just FF not cleaning up after herself.

But you know, its takes two to tago..."dysfunctional dance". I just used that. To DH. Just so he knows where I stand (unsympathetic) in this whole thing.

Exactly. FF is a grown woman

Exactly. FF is a grown woman and not TT's victim anymore. At this point she's a volunteer, she chooses to live there. She can call an Uber and get herself to the doctor.

Gads, drama queen much? I'm

Gads, drama queen much? I'm in agreement: call the waaaaaaaah-mbulance.

CLove, don't bother to muster up so much as a milli-ounce of sympathy for this obviously ham act. FF and TT thrive on this kind of caca. They should buy adjoining outhouses so they can continue to fling poo at each other. ~eyeroll~

LOL!

just about coughed out my taco!!!!

OMG. Adjoining outhouses.

Plus notice, she only wants

Plus notice, she only wants to be nice to Dad and clove when she's mad at mom. That what irks me about SS reaching out to DH when he's mad at BM. Oh, NOW you want him to be your parent. Got it. Nope.

I feel zero sympathy for these adult enmeshed skids.

Irony is...

DH isnteven ON the freaking family texts, but she just copies and pastes and texted HIM separately. DH's sister offered to help if she called (sucker!) So he told her call his sister for a ride.

egads.

And FF never texted me directly - Im part of a family group text. She ONLY goes through to DH, so Im lucky there. Im unlucky if shes desperate enough to text me anything.

Don't touch this even with a 10 ft pole

Not your circus, not your monkey.

If FF doesn't want to learn to drive then she can take a bus or Uber to the doctor. I thought she had a BF now? Please tell me he can drive LOL.

Have zero idea

I dont know her relationship status...I try to stay ignorant...of everything.

Great

That's probably best!

Although I cant unsee

Those darn family group texts...

if she were really in danger

if she were really in danger she'd have reached out to the police, instead she chooses to get people to take her side. In a week she'll love her mom again.

They're drama junkies. They thrive on it and ramp it up over and over again. leave them to it.

Drama Junkies!

Perfect! Engaged in the Never-Ending Dysfunctional Dance.

Wait this is how a mother

Wait this is how a mother talks to her child???? Im sorry but I do feell sorry for these girls. No wonder they are the way they are.

YES!!!!!

Toxic Troll has EARNED her name...sadly.

Thats why I need strength to resist the sympathy trap. Because Feral Forger (who is JUST like her mother btw) was molded into this monster by her mother, who now is playing victim to the younger sd15 backstabber.

Its a narcissistic triangle. The Golden Child only has sympathy for the mother, who creates and maintains the dynamic. And Feral Forger is the Bad One. Its horrible how she talks to her child and its horrible how she talks to the father of her children. Husband has had 30 years of this Troll. Because 50/50.

They are both ridiculous. FF

They are both ridiculous. FF is a whiny dramatic 20-something baby who can't even get herself to the doctor and TT is mean and low-class sounding.

Toxic Trashy Troll

should be her moniker.

I hate to be mom-shaming anyone. But as a stepmother who has no bios, I just cannot even let my mind go there...!

Why do you have to go

Why do you have to go insulting trashy people everywhere by saying TT is one of them??? That's just mean.

cough * cough *

LOL. I know. Imma Mean Biotch.

At 22 FF is more than capable

At 22 FF is more than capable of contacting Uber, Lyft, the local cab company, a friend, another relative, etc. This was just done for the drama and the sympathy. Spawn and Meth Mouth used to communicate with one another this way on text as well.

She called an ambulance finally

I guess she was just waiting until she was "ready". And wanting to garner the sympathy. SD15 told me that she was just going for maximum sympathy and her eyes were rolling all the way to the back of her head at the family group text.

Kind of a bonding experience for us, actually. Later in the evening I got a funtext accusing me of "taking her dad away".

AndSD15 was sympathetic (I didnt mention it, Feral Forger used siri to text me and she heard it because she was sitting nearby)