Ok SS13 is a TOTAL Disrespectful, LAZY, rude, VERY needy Immature spoiled brat. I've had many talks/Arguments with DH regarding SS13 Horrible behavior. DH ALWAYS has an excuse why he can't Discipline SS. Below are DH "Favorite" ones that I would like to have a come back with everyone's.

1. "ITS HARD TO HAVE RULES/Expectations WHEN SS LIVES IN TWO HOMES AND BM BABIES/CODDLES HIM". This is DH favorite come back for basically everything about SS crappy behavior I want fixed. Now DH is correct about BM. She does do EVERYTHING for him and treats him like a four year old but school has rules that SS has to follow so it can be done. 
 

2. "I'LL TRY BUT IT WONT HAPPEN OVER NIGHT" This is DH second favorite line to use for Correcting SS bratty behavior. Basically DH uses this line when he can't use the line above and what I'm asking to be fixed/done it's totally Reasonable Regarding SS. BUT when DH uses this line what he really means is "I'LL TRY BUT don't expect me to follow through if SS puts up a stink and I(DH) really don't think it's a big deal"

So if ANYONE has any Suggestions on good come backs or how to Counter the above statements PLEASE tell me.