I never thought that I would be driven to hate someone as much as I hate my fiance's ex wife. Five years of her greediness, meaness and vile texts, emails etc is blocking me from being able to forgive her and treat her as I would a sick friend. I pray all the time so that I can see her as a very sick person but this last week just brings feelings of sheer hatred to my heart. Three years of a court battle with her trying to get the kids more so she could get more money. She failed in this because my fiance is a great Dad and very supportive, we both love the kids. BM married two weeks ago and we thought, hooray now things will quieten down. Eh hello? Now there are two of them, he eggs her on with her vile texts. (We have tried to block the texts, we can block the phone but then the emails come in) We could not prove brainwashing and parental alienation in court, our attorney really was not agressive enough to go down that path, also he said it is really difficult to prove, so we also deal with that when the kids are with us which is 40% of the time. Its so sad, I should be feeling sorry for these children but I am filled with anger and hatred as they bring her toxic waste into our home. Thanks for letting me vent.