New schedule made up by BM
According to the court documents we are to have the kids(14 and 17 years of age) every other week. Friday to Friday..
They have been with BM for the past two months now and come by the house every once in a while. (They only live ten minutes away)
Yesterday they came over afterschool :O and I asked what happened to practice. They usually got to football practice after school and never come by.. So I was surprised to see them. DH was at work and doesn't get in til 4:30 pm. It was only 2:30 pm and I was watching my soaps in the livingroom.. I get home by 1:15 and usually have the house to myself.
Anyhow to make a long story short Dh comes home and tells me that they boys said that they will be staying with us on the weekends and stay with their mom during the week! :O
WTF?? I think not! Just how can she change the custody schedule on the drop of a dime?? Oh I know DH is the enabler and doesn't have the balls to say No lady you canj't just change shit to fit your schedule(whatever that may be).
DH grow some balls and put your foot down for once! Jeez!
Well, THAT sucks...and I
Well, THAT sucks...and I say, you go on about your business on the weekends so DH can take care of them...of course, at that age, what's really to take care of except feed feed feed them.
I say let it inconvenience hubby for awhile and then maybe his testicles will start to enlarge so he'll tell her not no, but HELL NO will you change the agreement w/o it being legal.
~*~Cheer up! It could be worse.
I cheered up, & it got worse!~*~
Wow, I hear a DH smackdown
Wow, I hear a DH smackdown coming. How do you plan to pin him and make him understand?
UCSM (BB)
"No matter how cynical I get, it's never enough." - Lily Tomlin
Smackdown!! too funny! I
Smackdown!! too funny! I like it!!
You know he is just sooo INTO his boys it is nauseating!!! They have not been living in the house that they grew up in for a few months now. So he is really looking forward to HIS boys being there on the weekends!
Again I don't have to do much they can take care of themselves. Just them being there and putting up with the no washing of dishes, the basic just laying around playing video games etc.. you know the routine tehse kids have.
So I will be off to work and just keep myself busy because when they are home its like Stuknaz doesn't exist.
"And this too shall pass..."