Hello...my SD is getting marred next week and I will not be there. I love my husband but I cannot go to this ordeal in good faith and put on a smile. She's 25 and I've been in her life since 2008. She has God my husband to choose either his marriage or her many times when lies she tells backfire on her. She has stolen so many things from my home I don't know where to begin. She accused her ex husband of raping and sodemizing his own daughters and stated he forced them to perform oral sex on him while a friend videotaped it. The case was denied and terminated because there was no evidence. She has put him through hell and back and to be honest I fear that one day I'm going to be on the accent end of one of her lies so severe I'm going to end up like him fighting with an attorney. I feel strong in needing to keep my distance from her and her kids because when things aren't her way the lying starts. My hubby is disappointed in not going and I wsh things were efferent for us but this is how our life is. I never got an invite for one but he wanted me to go regardless. I have no intention of going. I need your thoughts on this. The wedding is during a weekday and I'm working so I'm not worried about just missing it and staying home. My hubby's family is not attending either other than a couple and his family is huge. They like me are tired of her stories. Ami wrong here?