DD10's Bio-F has recently resurfaced in her life after a 10 yr. hiatus. When communication is needed, I contact him, but it's usually the SM who replies. When SM communicates with me occasionally, we keep it short, professional, and on the subject.

She doesn't bother me at all. Perhaps she's "over stepping," but I really don't mind. With the exception of her choice of husband, she seems reasonably intelligent, level-headed, good job, nice, etc.

I have no desire to inflict hardship in their marriage or her in specific; I am obviously an alien. :?