Have been with my husband for over 3 years now. And the baby momma just doesnt stop I dnt know what to do. She loves controling him doesnt allow him to see her or will control when he does.

I should start from the beganing. Hubby and I have known each other most of our lifes he used to live next door to my parents house at my aunts home where we would see each other every day,we went our different ways he got married and I got married years after. I seperated from my husband when my child was born. He got seperated because she threw him out after having him move over 300 miles and quit his job. He came back and at the same time I lived with my parents and he lived with my aunt. We started talking and leads went good for us..we knew each others situation so we were each others support. Month s past and his BM called so he could pick up their daughter because she had to work and no one could watch her. We traveled 300+ miles and got her. SD spend 6+ months with us with little to no contact with her mother (mind you she was 3 at the time) then out of no were she appered and said was pregnant and getting married and was taking the child back. So she did weeks past and hubby had no communication with his daughter. She moved back in town with no husband or child..we talked to her aunt and grandmother to see hoow the child was doing and they were worried. She would bathe her or feed her the grandmother had to do it. One day we were shopping and the aunt came up to us and told my hubby he had to do something for the child because she tought she was in drugs. We dnt believe anything she or her family tells us because theire all pathological liars. She disappeared for 3 months no ok ne knowing where she was. During all these we are both getting divorce. She appered asking him to get back with her after two baby stories and marriage.

Past year she did ended up pregnat by a kid 8 years younger than her. They live in her mothers house with my SD their child and one more in the way. We could say she was her life made up and she would be too busy to bother but guess again. My hubby is in the process of adopting my daughter because her biofather wanted nothing to do with her. (Didnt want to pay)

Anything we do she wants to say something. We cant go out of town because she starts saying that shes gonna go to the attorney generals so childs support is risen. All the paper works are final and theirs visitation established yet she doesnt care. She is 6 years almost 7 in Jan and will dress her with clothes that dont fit my 3 year old. It winter now and she keeps sending her with sandlels. We have send her clothes jackets shoes my mother sends her things too and so do the inlaws. Until this past weeken I grew tired and sent her the same as she sent her with. The BF of the BM txt my husband after dropping her of with treats that next time he saw my husband he would pay. So we called the cops. They went for him and I dnt know what happen. And now we have her calling cryung yelling why we did that. Im just out of it. Thus Christmas shes suppost to be with us. But BM said no that we have new years. I dnt inow what to do husband and I have argued and argued talked about seperation but I dnt want that. She controls very well how her daughter acts or say and Im just runjing on low. Dnot know what else to do or say. Any advice would help thanks