she's goooonnnneeee
sd13 left with bm and dopey at approximatly 3:03pm today! and isnt returning until monday night after daddykins returns! how did i pull this off u ask? by being a bitch and throwing a tantrum like a 3yr old 
last night, i texted bm for like 2 hours, blew up her fuckin phone. it was epic! by the end of the 2hrs, she was on the phone with sd, BEGGING her to get her shit ready cause she was coming to get her. sd said bm was PISSED and HURT by the shit i said }:)
heres the skinny on some of what i texted her:
"seriously, how the f#ck are u and bf gonna think that its up to ME to deal with ur f#ckin kid while he is away? i didnt push her big head thru MY punonnie, she doesnt respect me or like me, but obviously ur the 'best' cause u are bck well, since u 'claim' to want to be there for sd, then get ur stupid ass here and get UR KID! i have dealt with her enough, its ur turn to be her 'mother figure'. both u and bf need to stfu with this shit about me being there for sd cause i live her and she lives here, it doesnt fuckin matter who lives where, she is a lil bitch and she has no qualms causeing problems for me especially with daddykins gone and i wont deal with it. either U come get her or i will bring her to u and if she gives me any problems ill call the damn cops. i have no legal anything to this brat, and there are no documents stating i will take care of her while he is away, therefore its abandonment on his part so dont fuckin cross me u dumb c**t!"
these texts were obviously broken up and responses to her replies. sd didnt go last night cause sd told bm that she was too 'tired' to pack her a bag for the next almost week, and when i went in to tell sd to pack up she was dead asleep. all day today sd was in her room until bm came.
sometimes it pays to be a bitch 
While I understand how you
While I understand how you feel (I'm custodial SM to SS9 & SD8 while BM Nasty is off living the kid-free high life), I have to wonder how your BF feels about this. Does he know how much you despise SD13?
Enjoy your few days of freedom!
he knows i dislike her
he knows i dislike her behavior and her lack of respect, but as far as me not liking her as a person, no he doesnt know. i guess one goes with the other tho.
bm is a moron and self-centered, doesnt really give acrap about sd, so when we need her to take her outside of CO, we have to be tough with her. maybe what i said was harsh, but hey, sd has made it clear she doesnt want anything to do with me, so y should i waste MY child's christmas vay-cay dealing with a teen who, if she could, have boys over and sleep with them on a nightly basis? or go out somewhere and refuse to say where she is going all cause daddykins is gone out of state?
he didnt 'ask' me to take care of her, he basically just said he and his brothers were going up for the funeral, and just basically assumed i would care for sd. he pitched a fit when i suggested bm take sd the whole time...
Nice! Luckily, my Skids are
Nice! Luckily, my Skids are 8 & 9 so I don't have to deal with attitudes that are TOO hideous just yet...besides...they behave better when SO is away (funny how that works).
Their BM lives 4 states away & could care less about how they are doing or what they are up to...lucky that SD's BM lives so close!
Hoping that the fallout isn't too bad when your BF returns.
Enjoy your mini-break.