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Snotty 12 fixing to be 13, is a crap stirrer

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Submitted by SweetMom on Sun, 05/22/2016 - 9:43am

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She doesn't realize she's a shit stirrer but I can see it, as well as her dad. Her mom kept her out of school Friday because she cried the entire night before, over some guy that basically told her to back off and hurt her feelings. She came here Friday evening telling us the story. She got a new phone reading the texts. The boy told her to leave him alone..lol. She said to her dad he doesn't understand. What it sounds like to me is she's a bit of a physco like her Bm. It's like watching a episode of stalker chick but it's my step daughter. Her older half sister by Bm and someone else beside dh is a shit stirrer too..so bad towards me I had to stop her coming here, after all she was a ex step kid. Both girls doesn't like any of our friends girls. Yesterday our friend said Brittany was in her room and std12 just rolled that lip up and did the nah shake of head and looked down at her phone.. It was so rude. If it were my kid someone else's kid was shrudding her head or being mean to school at I would be very upset. I wanna slap the shit out of my step daughter but I can't because it's not my kid. Now I see why our friends are not inviting us to places anymore.

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Submitted by oneoffour on Sun, 05/22/2016 - 12:25pm

Someone needs to sit down with the girl-child and explain you can have a life long crush on someone but when they tell you to back off you do it. I pick her father. He can explain what boys like in a girl ... someone who is friendly to everyone, gets along with people, smiles, helpful. Because it means they will have a good time together and he will do anything for her.

Being a snot to everyone and crying off school because some guy told you to leave him alone will make things worse. Men do not like women who are hard work to please.

Dad should give her this talk and remind her he was a boy once and her mother wasn't. So it may be better she takes his advice if she wants to have a good relationship with someone. And he should step up and remind her how to be polite and respectful. Although just because your friends have girls her age doesn't mean they have to like each other. Forcing her to get along with someone she doesn't like isn't fair. The other option is to take her phone off her and remind her to get along for a few hours or she will be sitting in the car without her phone until you all get home.