I just want to know I am not alone on this. Here is the situation: my husband has a 10 yr old daughter (that his family thinks may not be his which is a whole other story) that comes every other weekend. I cant stand her because she is lovey dovey to him when she visits and then as soon as she goes back to her moms, she talks badly about him and generally throws him under the bus, telling mom things that will cause her to send mean text messages to my husband. She does this everytime and her older brother even pulled her aside and told her she is knowingly causing problems for her dad/my husband. My husband is a good father and doesn't deserve this. He goes back and forth between being in denial about what kind of daughter he has and realizing that she is not right. I just had a baby and my husband's sister tells me one day to be careful because his 10 yr old daughter hurts babies. She has a baby that has spent lots of time with her. Luckily his daughter has not come for a visit for a couple of months (another long story) but now my husband is trying to get the visits to start up again. My only peace is knowing we are going to be moving out of the area in about 6 months and I will have to only deal with her during the summer. I am hoping by that time she completely turn her back on her father the way the older brothers have instead of being two-faced. I should say that as a child of the same age of divorced parents, I never looked to throw my father or my mother under the bus. I am trying to cope and not be angry with the brat and my husband being so foolish thinking she is loving loyal daughter (makes my stomach turn.) Please someone tell me I am not alone.