My SD 10 is in the hospital. I can't go see her bc her BM hates me and would make a scene. I don't want to upset my SD10 bc she needs to focus on getting better. It's bull**** we don't have legal rights to our step kids.
Going when she isn't there seems the only logical advise. People get far too many visitors while in the hospsital - the point is to get better not be a hostess.
As a BM you would take great offense at a step-mother having some legal rights over your biological child of that I can assure you.
****People get far too many visitors while in the hospsital - the point is to get better not be a hostess.
I would think a parent (of any type) would not be considered a visitor. No need for SD10 to play hostess. It is also important to one's healing process to have the support of their loved ones.
Ugh .. I'd be upset as well
Ugh .. I'd be upset as well
I hope she's okay
Going when she isn't there
Going when she isn't there seems the only logical advise. People get far too many visitors while in the hospsital - the point is to get better not be a hostess.
As a BM you would take great offense at a step-mother having some legal rights over your biological child of that I can assure you.
****People get far too many
****People get far too many visitors while in the hospsital - the point is to get better not be a hostess.
I would think a parent (of any type) would not be considered a visitor. No need for SD10 to play hostess. It is also important to one's healing process to have the support of their loved ones.
I would be devastated if this were me.