weekend ruined!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well BM really pulled a fast one. Yesterday (friday) she was supposed to pick SD8 up at the bus stop (her day) well 1/2 hour before it was time to pick her up she calls. Says to H that she doesnt feel well and can he do it? HE says no. But goes to the bus stop anyway, just to make sure. SHE DOESNT SHOW!!!!!!!!! So he gets her and now we have her. No answer on BM phone. 9:00 last nite she finally calls. H doesnt answer and she didnt leave a message. SHe has done similar stuff in the past. We had plans with friends tonite which we are going to have to cancel cus we dont have a sitter. IM so fing pissed! Cus we only make plans when we dont have SD!!!!!!!!! WHat can I do??? I want to go find this woman and beat the crap out of her. Is this an option?
That is really messed up
I agree with Mustang I mean BM could care less if her 8 year old was left wandering around. But she knew that your DH would drop everyhing to go get his daugther. That is the trick they play on us and what frustrates us all the time. I'm sorry that your plans got ruined. My FH used to have this happen to him all the time when SD was younger (thank god I wasn't with him because I would have dumped him) and the BM would do it to just deliberatly ruin his plans because she would know that he had a g/f or plans to go away for the weekend or whatever and then she would pull a disappearing act - so my FH always got dumped by women because of the crazy BM. And of course he wasn't going to say no for his daughter.
yep
BM basically hates being a parent it seems. Especially when it comes time for her to have SD on a weekend. ALthough weekdays are a chore to, because BM has to get out of bed!! Poor thing.
We live 1 block from the bus stop so SD coould have walked to our house, but the doors would be locked. My H's grandma lives 2 doors away and is almost always home, so she could have gone there. But the bus will not leave children that age off the bus unless a parent or guardian is there. The procedure is to take them back to school and contact someone on her list. That would have been H. During this process Im quite sure SD would have been crying and freaking out. Its amazing to me that BM would let this happen. (it has before) SHe doesnt care. Its all about BM.
And yes I told H that he should have said he didnt get her. But thought of that too late.
Today was SD's first confession at church and it was a big deal for her. We of course took her and were there. BM didnt call or show up. AND ITS HER DAY!! 2 days ago she called to say she bought SD a dress for the event...which we never got. So SD had to were a dress we had here, she was not happy about that at all!
I still want to beat the crap out of her. I have been good for 3 years, never have a spoken a bad word to her or SD (I would never say anything bad to SD about her mom cus i dont think thats good for SD) But Im at the end of my rope here with this! I want some kind of revenge!! Or just the satisfation of telling off this peice of crap of a mother!
Next time he should view the child from afar and call the cops
on the witch. When the cops arrive he should walk up and inform them that he was the one who called and have then write a report on the BM. Then he should take the kid home and not ever return her. I for one would hunt down my XW if she abandoned my 8yo child at a bus stop and let her know in no uncertain terms that she was done as my kids mother and if she ever crawled out of her cesspool again that it would be the last thing she ever did that would not entail a trip to jail or court.
GRRRRRRR! People like that piss me off.
At least in our case BioDad pretty much stays under his rock all of the time. The main issue we have is BioPaternalGrandMa who is BioDad's proxy pain in the ass. For us it is only two more years, two more years, two more years, then visitation goes away. And the good news is CS continues for three more years of college. I love that part! The SpermFamily is going to blow a gasket when they figure that one out.
Best regards,