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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Tue, 04/03/2012 - 8:45pm

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sd is at a friends house for the night, or at least that was the plan. i just got home a half hr ago from my lil cousin's bday party, bd is ready for bed and bf is sleeping as he has to work tonight. sd just sent me a message saying she wants to be picked up. the friend she is at lives a decent distance (25 minutes). i had told her earlier today that i will drive her there but only if she was sleepin over cause i had the party and i was tired and didnt want to drive all the way to her friends later tonight. she said ok. bf said ok he understood.

i ignored the text. havent heard again from her. its rediculous. im sure the reason is that her friends boyfriend is there and sd must feel like 3rd wheel. idk. but, i really dont want to rush getting her since bf leaves for work soon.

i could tell her to call bm but bm is being a jerk cause of an incident between bm n sd saturday morning so bm is being immature and told us she is done with sd.

do i get her and risk bf bein late to work over something stupid or do i ignore and if she truly needs to come home then friends mom can bring her home?

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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Tue, 04/03/2012 - 10:22pm

i repeatedly asked sd what was wrong. she kept sayin she was just bored. when i woke up bf so he can get ready for work, i told him the situation. he said "since she wont tell u if there is a serious problem, apparently it isnt an emergency. im not going to risk being late for work cause she is bored." so i got his 'blessing' so to speak NOT to go get her.

she called her bm and said the same thing. bm said she was already in bed for the night and if it wasnt an emergency, sd was stuck there.

if it was MY bd, the same would apply. sd is an entitled brat and does expect everyone to jump at her call, which i myself wont do.

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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Tue, 04/03/2012 - 10:50pm

i agree with this. when i was younger and wanted to stay the night with my cousins (close in my age) then the rule was, we were there for the night unless there was an emergency. as i got older and stayed with friends, the same rule applied. i was not coddled and did not have a sense of entitlement. i knew my parents would be there for me when needed...GOOD reasons only lol