Went to SD15s softball game last night with DH because he asked me to go. We get there and SD says “Hi” to her dad and grandma, but not to me. I don’t say anything. They chitchat, BM asks us where we are sitting, we tell her and DH and MIL start to walk away. I’m walking behind them and I hear, in a whisper, BM say “Did she say hi to you?”…and SD mumbles under her breath huh-uh, while catching a glance at me. They don’t even know that I heard the exchange. I said to DH “you might want to tell your ex that she isn’t helping things with SD and me by asking SD if I said hi to her”. His response…”well, did you say hi”. WTF!!! I said “uhm, I didn’t, but I consider it beyond rude that she made it a point to say hello to everyone else that was standing there but me.” Well, then the MIL pipes up and says “True, however, you are the adult and should be the bigger person”. I responded…”nah, not this time”. May have been childish but I was pissed that, once again, I was expected to kiss the ass of this child that treats me disrespectfully.

Then, BM moves over to sit closer to. She and DH get talking about Prom, which is tonight. As usual, since the world revolves around SD, her hair and nail appointments were made for today. Mind you, her mother works until 4:00, so wouldn’t be taking her to these appointments. Nothing was mentioned to DH until LAST NIGHT. MIL says she can take SD to her appointments. DH said that it would have been nice to have been told about them beforehand. Notice the use of the word “told” instead of “asked”. A light bulb went off in my head….aha…this is why SD wanted to stay with us last night, when she hasn’t had anything to do with us recently…she needed a chauffeur today. If it were me I’d have said, sorry, can’t do, have plans, should have asked me earlier.

I really am getting to the point where I can’t stand BM or SD.