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Does anyone know if parental rights can be forced away from someone? My sons BD is wanting to see my son. He has not been in pic since he was born and he is 4 now. My son thinks my husband is his dad!!! We get no CP altho it is ordered. I think the BD may have paid now since he wrote me saying things are in order now. We wanted to have my husband adopt my son legally. Of course BD wont agree but he is jail bait. He does drugs and prob sells. He isn't good at all and even threatens me and cusses me. I want his right gone. There is a big story to this but I wanna know if rights can be taken away. I know he his BD but he hasn't made no effort except threaten me to kill me and my fam. Any advice? Thanks!
Do you have proof of the
Do you have proof of the threats? You don't have to let him see your son if there is no court order. If he really threatened you and you have proof, I would get a restraining order and consult an attorney about terminating his rights. He hasn't seen the kid in 4 years. Maybe there is an abandonment way to terminate - though that would have been easier before he caught up on the support payments.
Your comments are confusing.
Your comments are confusing. Sons B(io) D(aughter) wants to see son. He - he who - son? He is 4 now - who? BD?
Nobody is going to take paterial rights away from someone without very very good cause which you must prove not allege He may be a bas.... but you've got to prove he worse than that.
I am pretty sure she means
I am pretty sure she means her sons Bio Dad.
I meant my son is 4 and bio
I meant my son is 4 and bio dad. I have proof of him cussing me out and stuff but he threatened me over the phone years bck when I had my son. He hasn't caught up on CS yet tho. He is like way....BEHIND thousands of dollars behind! I just can't believe after all the years.... now? He said he was gonna msg member everyday. I think that is harassment and stalkerish. My husband is a cop but I am in fear of of bio dad and if he did get visitation... he'd be the one to run off with my son!! Bio dad is bi-polar and suicidal and was supposed to get counseling but hasn't yet. I should have listened to my parents bck then about this guy before I got pregnant. Smh.
Unless you can get proof that
Unless you can get proof that the father being out of the child's life is whats best for the child and that the father is what you say, a really bad person to be around, and unless you can get the father to agree to the rights being taken away then you will have a hard time getting them taken away. In some states even if you can get the father to agree then a judge will not sign off on anything unless there is another man willing to adopt the child. But you have stated there is a man ready to do that. As for child support Im not sure if that would be a good enough reason to have his rights taken away. Sounds like a deadbeat to me but you have to be able to prove he is a piece of crap...
Well I have proof of his jail
Well I have proof of his jail records and his emails. And the email that he stated for me to terminate his rights 100% even tho it was out of anger. I have price ted them off. My husband can get me everything of his jail time b/c my husband works there so I luck up there. Lol.
Even tho you have an email
Even tho you have an email stating he wants to terminate his rights it doesnt meen a thing. It all has to be legalized. There of course are papers for that. When you deal with legal paperwork you have to get everything notarized also so the email does nothing.