This afternoon DH receives a text from his eldest daughter. She was asking how he was doing (as DH had a cold when we were together at Christmas)

This from the same daughter who couldn't even muster enough maturity to say hello to me at Christmas, let alone "Merry Christmas" couldn't even respond in a polite manner when I asked what I could do to assist with preparing brunch, or most importantly "how is your sister's eye injury"

Unreal

I think what prompted this from her was 1: nosiness as when we were on the phone with YSD yesterday afternoon my sister's husband called me on my cell in a panic about my sister (thank goodness all is okay but we didn't know yesterday afternoon) and 2: after the shitty way DH's daughter behaved towards me on Christmas (and the cold shoulder DH gave her in return) I'm sure she figured as usual all she had to do is send any little crumb DH's way and all was forgotten and forgiven from him, and again a green light to go ahead and continue being abusive towards his wife

She never ceases to amaze me

I'm sure DH would have 100% jumped right on board grovelling and being oh so grateful she had anything to say to him, but thought twice instead as he knows how little I respect his lack of standing up for me to her abuse

And of course, she did not so much as ask about how my sister or myself were doing. Considering how serious the situation with my sister, that is just down-right disgusting. Nothing to do with showing any type of concern for your step-parent, no it is about common decency as a human being when there is a crisis going on that you know about. Refusing to show any concern or extend any kind word at all, is about as low as a human being can sink I think. Especially considering the people you are so horrific to have never been anything but kind and decent to you.

Either way I'm glad DH didn't jump on board with her, he simply told her he was still sick and now I was too. If DH would only act like a parent rather than an over the top grateful idiot and actually be a role model for his kids, his life and relationship with them would be oh so much better