I have not been on here in ages. Dealing with lots of stress with my own kids. I do have to say that my dh had grounds to be furious, but handled the past few weeks with kindness and class. He is a keeper, and yes he is a workaholic, but I do love him.
Dh continues to have no contact with his daughters. He did notice that the student loan people were looking for oldest daughter. He texted her that info. I am sure they will not let 80 k go!!!! Then dh points out this week his ex is liking lots of sites on facebook dealing with getting your student loans forgiven. Hey, I am so glad it is finally coming back to bite them in their asses. If you recall dh was forced by courts to continue to help fund her college all the while failing every semester. So she has to pay back 80k with nothing to show for it.
So we are driving in the car yesterday and dh's old colleague and friend calls, from the Middle East where he resides. Turns out dh's youngest dsughter is there, flew in to vacation with them, she had been hanging out herself in another Mid East country since her study abroad there ended in May.. Hmmmm..........as the conversation progressed it became so clear that this family still thinks that dh and daughter buddy buddy still. They have not seen her in 6 years! But connected through FB. So they are rolling out red carpet for her and a friend! Unbelievable. They say they spent the night talking about how great my dh and I are and what fun we have had in past. Obviously his daughter shared nothing with them......so they hand phone to her and she says hi dad. Dh asks her a few questions about how vacation going, then phone gets handed off. This was on speaker phone and I wanted to tell her off in the worst way!! They asked me if I wanted to speak with her, but I said no..
So she is spending lots money flying all around. And dh got her college bill recently......he pays 10k per year and 10 k child support. This same 21 year old kid will be applying for 60k year grad school in sept.. Hopefully we can get her emancipated..
But what nerve. She pretends to still be connected with dh and the reason this family is having her there is because she is dh's daughter. Yet she and her mother smeared him all over town over the years. Clearly she knew she could not do that with this family.