so, late 30’s SD is now in supervised rehab and should be getting an apt soon and getting her son back. We payed off her car and fixed it to the tune of about 10, 000. She came to pick it up while I was out and DH said she didn’t even say thank you. Wow! The person who had cared for her son, for over a year, wants her life back, and wants her to see her son more. She has every weekend off, so she really should spend time with this poor kid. He does not like going to see SD’s mother as she doesn’t do much with him— in fact, he cries when he has to spend the weekend with her. I’m banned from his life, so am unable to even speak with him. I just cannot believe after all this that she cannot even be grateful.