Rough Week For DW
DW is having a difficult week of her DDs showing her again and again what miraculous human beings they are.
SD26 was arrested on Tuesday in a neighboring County during a larger drug sting (shocking), she is still incarcerated (Thank Goodness) and has such a large bond that none of her fly by night druggie friends can pay it, and none of her family will be principle alone. Best part , she wound up on the local news due to this being such a large sting ( So proud !)
Last evening SD20 had one of her druggie friends at our house, this friend apparently decided to befriend some stranger on the road not far from our neighborhood, this guy shows up at our house claiming that someone stole his car and that either SD20 or said friend knows the person. SD20 was going to allow this person into our house and I was able to stop that. What I couldn’t stop was a neighbor calling both the Sherriff and our Landlord about a shady character roaming the neighborhood and now he’s on my porch !!!!!!
Deputies start questioning the guy as to what is going on, he excuses himself to go out back to relieve himself ( eww thanks) and what do you know he disappears. SDs friend is lying to cops saying she doesn’t know the guy he just showed up, SD is spinning what ever BS she can come up with and then one of the deputies asked if he can speak to DW inside, He informs us when they came up on the porch SDs friend and shady guy were smoking pot on our porch and asked if we knew about it, which of course we did not but weren’t surprised, somehow SD was not on the porch when the deputies arrived and therefore wasn’t included in that part but she admitted it was her pipe and thought it was funny, yep real funny SD, now you admitted to drugs and paraphernalia in my house (tonight is not going to fun for SD), could lay into her last night as the baby was in bed and didn’t want to wake him with all the shouting there is going to be.
DW told SD that friend had to leave and that she was done, not sure what she means by “done” but I guess we will see. We are waiting to see if the landlord gets hostile with us over all the law enforcement presence at our house or he realizes it wasn’t actually us just DWs loser kid and company which is being handled.
DW cried herself to sleep, and yes I feel bad for her but at the same time I am hoping this is another lesson that SD20 is not really any better than SD26 and DW starts seeing the light before it is too late and we suffer further problems or worse that SD20’s antics get the gskids removed from us and put in foster care, that would be the final nail in DW coffin, she would lose her mind.
All of this and we had to have DW’s car towed back to the mechanic after it was just there last week for a new water pump and serpentine belt, now it seems the starter might be shot as well. Love paying extra on a car we still owe on !
Wow
That's a proud parenting moment. Waiting for you to stroke out there Major.
Nahh no stroke here, just
Nahh no stroke here, just under the breath chuckles as DW is slowly learning what reality is, she's getting there just taking the long and scenic route.
Your DW is afraid of losing
Your DW is afraid of losing her daughter... What about losing her grandkids to foster care?? They are innocent children. The SDs are adults and made their sh!tty choices to stay on this craptastic path to low-life-lihood and jail.
Major... I sincerely hope your DW realizes that the SDs are already lost. As adults, THEY need to make the decisions to change their paths. {{{hugs}}}
And thanks for the Hug !!!!
And thanks for the Hug !!!! Just watch those hands Aniki !!!!!!!
Jeez, Major, I didn't realize
Jeez, Major, I didn't realize your shoulder blades were so sensitive!
Well your hands are cold lol
Well your hands are cold lol
Not at that time - I was
Not at that time - I was having a hot flash!!! LOL
LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yes, she even told SD20 last
Yes, she even told SD20 last night that the Gskids were her priority. I'm going home today and letting SD20 know that all her drug crap better be out of my house or she can go, if DW is unhappy with that I guess we will have a go around, this one I will win hands down.
I'd dig through SD's space
I'd dig through SD's space and remove her crap yourself. You won't be able to trust her if she says she got rid of it.
I'm sorry for all this trouble. It's a hard way to get there, but hopefully your DW will see the light.
I hate to say it, but I wish my SD were as transparent as yours. I have no hope of anyone seeing light here but me.
Good point Marble, I might
Good point Marble, I might have to do that, wouldn't be the first time I tossed her room.
Maybe you could be the change
Maybe you could be the change by playing the heavy and kicking YSD out? Your wife may simply never be capable of doing that. She might need you to do it for her? Healing and working on your wife's issues might need to come later.
This sh!tshow is jeopardizing not only your gskids but the roof over all your heads - time to pull the big red handle IMO. The landlord might be mollified by the fact that the person causing the problems is no longer living there.
Sadly enough I am usually the
Sadly enough I am usually the heavy when it comes to either SD, and right now DW is so sensitive that if I kicked out SD20 I’m not sure she could take it. Not to be passing the buck but DW has to reach that stage where she sees herself that SD20 has to go. DW believes that since SD20 has a job and hasn’t gotten arrested or knocked up (yet) that she is still worth taking care of. We don’t share this opinion.
So far no word from the LandLord so I am hoping if he brings it up telling him that the druggie guest is gone will be enough to keep him mollified (good word !).
You are far too kind
When I put SD out, I took all her carp to a storage unit. Yeah I'm jaded like that.