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Submitted by phxsuns_1963 on Sat, 10/22/2016 - 4:56pm

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So I posted a few weeks ago about the Adult princess SD and how she didn't want me to have my grandson unless "daddy" was there. You know because I am probably just horrid to the little guy (mind you, I love that boy!) So, fast forward we did take all 4 of our grandkids for the weekend. We met princess SD and her husband and my SS for dinner to drop off my little guy. My youngest granddaughter who is 5, asked her sister, who is 6, what she was going to do for her upcoming bday. She proceeded to tell her what type of party she wanted. I sat there listening to the girls chatting and my grandson talked about his party that he had, which both of the girls attended, and he asked my youngest granddaughter why he didn't get to go to her party. Now, keep in mind the girls and my youngest grandson are my BD's children, and my youngest granddaughter said;"my mommy invited you and your mommy and daddy and you weren't allowed to go. My mommy said that your mommy didn't let you go." My grandson turned around and asked his mother why, she sat there red faced not saying a word. Her husband looked at her and said; "you told me he wasn't invited", again nothing from SD. My oldest granddaughter said; "you shouldn't lie, Jesus is listening and that would make him sad". The entire time I sat there, chuckling and at the end of the evening, I looked at my DH in front of all the kids and SD and said; "out of the mouths of babe's, maybe she needs to take a lesson from the kids". Princess stomped off to the car, crying as her husband and brother just stood there watching her walk away. I looked at the DH and laughed and told him it looks like she got her feelings hurt, better go tell her she's misunderstood and EVERYONE else is evil and mean. Not a fucking word was spoken! At the end, my SS and the SIL, apologized for her attitude and actions, told them both, in front of DH wasn't any skin off my ass I was done with her juvenile ass.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Sat, 10/22/2016 - 6:42pm

I'm wondering why the 6 year old repeated what her said. That is a huge no no in my circle. What's said in our house stays there.

Here comment to the SD was was just wrong. Yup, SD lied all around. But that doesn't mean the 6 year old gets to run her mouth in that manner.

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Submitted by phxsuns_1963 on Sat, 10/22/2016 - 8:04pm

My granddaughter was only repeating what she heard in Sunday school. That lying makes Jesus sad, how is that disrespectful? What I said, absolutely 100% disrespectful, and quite honestly I did not care. I have bent over backwards for this child since she was little. I paid for her wedding, dress, hair, make up, venue, photographer not her father and mother, me. I was good enough to pay for everything, but not to sit with my DH during the ceremony or be in one picture. She has stood in front of her bio parents and lied for years. She has stolen my car, money, and blatantly called me more names than I care to think about. I have stood back and not said a word, not when she was caught dating a man that was twice her age,and she was 15. I TRIED to be there for her, she is not interested in having any type of relationship with me. She has told me to my face to fuck off, DH response was she's stressed. To say that 6yo needs slapped, metaphorically or otherwise, is beyond disrespectful. Unbelievable. When you know the entire story and dynamics of this mess I call my life, by all means please make a judgment.

With that being sad, everyone have a good evening.

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Submitted by grace8205 on Sun, 10/23/2016 - 12:02am

I love how your little granddaughter recited her Sunday school teachings. She called her out without really knowing because of her innocence, doesn't get better than that.

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Submitted by phxsuns_1963 on Sat, 10/22/2016 - 8:39pm

Thank you for that. How a little girl was being made out to be horrid is beyond me. I on the other hand, was pissed and didn't mince words, something I have never done, until last week, should it had been said in front of my grandkids? absolutely not, would I do that again, and it NOT be in front of my grandkids, you bet your ass.

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Submitted by phxsuns_1963 on Sat, 10/22/2016 - 10:21pm

Sueu2 - I most certainly take offense when someone says that the comment needed slapped off of her face, whether rhetorically or not, that was uncalled for along with being called low-class, you wouldn't take offense?
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Submitted by jam on Sun, 10/23/2016 - 7:55am

SD was simply busted and exposed for HER lie by an innocent child. Personally I am happy for you that the truth came out.

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Submitted by sammigirl on Sun, 10/23/2016 - 12:14pm

When a 6 year old knows the difference between a lie and the truth; it's great! My SGGD6 has told me numerous times what is said, about me (mean SM, mean SGM). The nice part, I know she is telling the truth and she repeated it in front of my DH. I just enjoyed the KARMA, never replied. I've never had words with my SD56 nor SGD31 (mother/daughter). I will not give them the satisfaction; with that said, every situation is different and it's your business how you handle it.

My DH doesn't think SD nor SGD would ever say these things; yep, now he knows. LOL.....

Dirol