Step daughter broke into the house
I have been trying to build a relationship with my husbands youngest daughter (28). I trusted her that we were becoming friends. I wanted this so my husband could see that I'm not a bad person and hate his kids. I don't really hate them I just dislike what they do. I don't like the fact they have tried breaking us up ever since we have been together. I also don't like being accused of something that I know I didn't do or say , its like how do I prove to my husband I didn't say or do it. Anyways I left the house my step daughter showed up at my husbands dads house to tell me she loved me and she was sorry for what I was going through ( my husband and I were getting ready to go our separate ways (KIDS). I had been crying for 4 days and didn't eat for 5 except for half a banana. Anyways my step daughter was acting funny she left before I did, I thought something is up. So I took kinda the long way around to our home started to pass by our house and her car was in the drive way. Needless to say I saw her in the house through the kitchen window she was closing it. I couldn't believe it. I came in and she went out the front door and was sitting at the patio table. I said what are you doing she said leaving you a note telling you I love you. I told her I needed to go and so did she. I then called my husband and he said to call the police to press charges. I did they arrested her. She was out the next day. She is facing a felony could get 7 years but I doubt it. My husband is going to call and see if they will drop it down to a misdemeanor today. He doesn't want her to have another felony on her record. He asked me what I thought I told him to do what ever he felt he needed to do. I really started loving her and still do I just cant believe she did this. I was so shocked. Do you ever get to trust them, and when they say they love you do you believe it. I'm so confused. I really wanted to believe.
Yes he also has a mini wife
Yes he also has a mini wife by the other daughter. This also takes a toll on me. I can only deal with so much. The husband of the other daughter told me my husband treats his wife, like its his wife. I see this but really what do you do. It was a very rough week here. I really feel sometimes I'm losing my mind. I cried so much because of all this stress that my eyes were almost swollen shut. Does it ever get better. I know my husband loves his kids a lot. But come on where does it stop.
She didn't have a chance to
She didn't have a chance to take anything. Had she gotten the chance she would have. This is not her first time, She steals, drugs, lies, She has been in trouble with the law a few times. This house belong to my husband and his wife who passed away. The daughter who broke in was banned from here about 8 months ago, because she took money out of my purse. Before that she stole her dads meds. So she was banned because of that. She went to prison for 16 0r 18 months for writing her own prescription, and for forgery on her community service. The dad is aware but they are his kids. That's all I know to say about that. She has been going around telling everyone even the police I invited her over so not even true. She has known for a very long time she is not aloud over here. She told her brother that she is waiting for her dad to drop the charges. Will see what the out come will be. I feel sorry for her dad I know what its like to love your kids. Somewhere down the line he needs to start making them be accountable for what they do, I think he is starting to now I hope. My husband is not dumb by no means.
at some point a parent has to
at some point a parent has to have balls and let the children learn a lesson for life. by keeping bailing them out, they are enabling and perpetuating the problem.