I had a great time at the family reunion.The place was crowed .I had my mind made up not to let SK'S and DIL'S get to me.DH and I was talking to new family and out of the corner of my eye I saw this little girl coming toward me.It was my SGD that I havent seen in 2 years because of SS and DIL.She is now 5.I bent down to her and she told me she remembered me .I said I remembered you to sweetheart.I ask her if she knew my name and she said no.I hugged her and told her I loved her and she told me she loved me also.SS didnt see her talking to me. I can say I have finally healed from missing and greiving over her.I didnt have any feeling.I was numb I guess. It was time to eat and the seats were filling up.SK was gonna have to sit close to me but guess what.They stayed on the other side of the building and wouldnt sit close to me.I love it. I was laughing with family and with my DH having a great time.SK never spoke to their dad. After the meal a photographer wanted to have everyone in the picture.SK'S refused to get in the picture. Family said why dont yall want to get in the picture.I want to say yeah SK'S why dont yall tell them why you wont get in the picture but I didnt say anything.They were saying a lot by their actions. This time SK'S in front of everyone wouldnt tell me to step a side for a family picture like they us to tell me.:)Just a little later someone ask DH where did his kids go.They said they didnt go out the front door.They slipped out the back door and was gone.I felt so good that they saw me having a good time and they saw I did not give 2 filps about them and I dont care about them now.I am so glad I went to this reunion .I can see now I have come alone way and I will be ok .I am very thankful.