Hey all, been gone a few weeks, lot’s has been going on. First the good, me & DH finally found a house we liked, made a bid, came to an agreement on the price and have been approved for the loan, now just waiting for the appraisal. Been going thru training at work, new operating system is going live on 9/23, pretty excited about that, right now we use a DOS program straight out of the 80’s and not capable of doing very much, the new one will be much better.

Now for the bad, while applying for the home loan and reviewing the information on my credit report I discovered a collection account in my name with a company I had never heard of. I started making phone calls and come to find out, this was an account set up in my name by my SD. I was shocked to say the least, I probably shouldn’t have been, but still I couldn’t believe she would do this and not think I would get to the bottom of it, stupid girl.

The day I discovered this I went thru such a range of emotions, from rage to sadness, to nothing. I feel absolutely nothing for my SD. I don’t hate her, I don’t like her, I just don’t care about her or if she is ever in my life. The only thing I feel right now is sad for my DH. He has just apologized and apologized for her actions. He is embarrassed and doesn’t know what to think about her at this point, I hate this for him.

I had to have a very frank conversation with him about her. I explained that she crossed such a line that she can never uncross it with me. I will never forgive her or be around her again. She is not welcome in my home or presence and this is the hill I’m prepared to die on. DH says that he understands, I hope so.

I’m looking forward to closing on my house and then the shopping can begin. New furniture, woohoo, it’s the little things that bring me happiness, lol. I hope you are all ok and doing good in stephell. I’ve got more training for the next 2 days, fun, fun, fun