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cmwolfe1264's picture

OSD32 hasn't called DH much since her Gma's funeral in February. She caused a huge fight with her Dad over something so ridiculous it is disgusting (yes, she blamed me for something that I didn't do, go figure:) Prior to this she would call her Daddy several times a DAY all week long. But after this all went down she has had no contact with him. He has not tried to contact her either as he felt she was totally wrong. She recently sent a message to a bunch of family members (including DH) about family stuff which basically amounted to trying to drum up drama for herself - NO, really? So we figured something is going on. Well she called her Daddy Sat. morning and he missed the call, she called again and he missed that call, she then texted him simply saying "call me". He apparently did return the call awhile later but I don't know what they discussed and I'm not going to ask. Sorry but I find that so offensive, she hasn't give him the time of day in months and all she can say is "call me"! Sorry, just bugs me how rude her and her sister talk/treat their Dad. I know he is also at fault because he has allowed them to talk to him this way all this time, but still it makes my stomache churn when I see this crap!

TASHA1983's picture

It just blows my mind how many posts I see on here DAILY with nothing but pushover-sorry-excuses-for-men/husbands/boyfriends/fathers!!! I dont get it!!! I cant believe it!!! I will never understand why grown ass men ALLOW their CHILDREN to control, manipulate, disrespect, etc. etc. not only their wives/girlfriends, etc. but also THEMSELVES!!!

UN-FREAKIN-BELIEVABLE!!!!

chickadee1444's picture

I don't get it either,,unless it's guilt of soem sort.was he a bad father and is making up for it now?..I am tired of my husbands daughter manipulating him.She tries it with me too.She was born aggressive and always got away with it and if you don't agree with her, she becomes a bully.I was warned about her and didn't listen when I was told she is a bitch.She bullies her kids and her husband..her father can't see it Sad

cmwolfe1264's picture

Yes, you are so right SA. Yes, I believe DH feels so,so much guilt over the divorce and how things went afterwards with their BM. The kids BM is atrocious still and I know my DH feels bad about it so I think he does more than he should to make up for BM doing absolutely nothing. She even moved to a foreign country to shirk her motherly duties.
OMG you watched that show!! I saw a preview for it and thought it might be funny but didn't get a chance to watch it. I figured there would be plenty of screaming and yellowing going on! Fortunately, for me my DH's family have been very good to me. My MIL was a wonderful, kind caring woman and I was blessed to have a good relationship til her dementia got worse and she passed away recently.