So, DH shipped out on Monday morning for his 11 month deployment. The final trial for custody is being pushed back until DH gets back. BM will most likely push a new temporary order here soon, but as of right the old temporary order is still in place making DH the custodial parent. Now that DH is gone, I am left dealing with BM. One of my main worries is now that DH is gone, BM will have more influence on SS and will start turning him against me and his dad. She has done this before and it worked temporarily. I know I shouldn't take it personally when SS wants BM over me but it's hard not to when I'm the one taking care of him daily and BM only started wanting him after we went to court. Any advice on what to do/how to deal?