I just posted a while ago about BM involvement, what is too much?? I have 2 stepkids. 50/50 split. When we have them at our house, the mom calls the kids to talk, and texts my husband non stop.
I realized that from reading the responses, it isn't the fact that she calls and texts the kids non stop that bothers me.. I'm happy they get to reach their mom on the days they don't spend with her. What is REALLY bothering me is how much she talks to my husband. 10 texts a day, a phone call everyday . The other day my husband and the kids were at a family dinner and BM shows up to pick up the kids and invites herself in and hangs out and talks with her ex mother in law and my husbands aunts!!! , while I was sitting there eating dinner!!!

I'm SO frustrated!! It causes major problems between me and my husband. I demand to see his phone then he doesn't let me because he says all I'll do is get mad!!

Why do they have to talk so much??!!! My husband says it's because he wants to keep the peace, but the irony here is that in doing so, he creates war with me. He's so secretive! I hate it!! Is a stepmom just supposed to sit back and accept that her husband has some part of his life they can't be part of, or what ??!!