ok... please everyone with kids/skids that poop/pee themselves reply! This is crazy how many of us are dealing with this issue! I'm starting this post cuz another post of mine showed me just how many of us there are out there!!! If you have a kid or skid that still poops/pees themselves please respond to this, hopefully we can all been each other out! My SD10.5 still poops her pants! she's been doing it forever! We've had all medical testing done, there is no medical reason for this at all! she can and does control it when she wants to. she's never done it at school, or day camp, or summer camp, or anywhere she doesn't want to! Her counsellors say its a control thing, it's the only thing she can control. She lives with her skeeze bag bm, and we have her every other weekend plus school holidays. I've been in her life since she was 3 (met her when she was 2, started dating her daddy when she was 3, married dh when she was 6) Her parents were done and completely broke up by the time she was 2, they were never married...skeeze bag has kids with guys to trap them and for income. BM is a terrible mother, shouldn't be allowed to have children, she now has another with another "sperm donor" as she calls them! life at sd home is very dysfunctional, cps always involved, police called on bm by sd school for abuse. SD watches and babysitter for bm other kid that's only 3!
We've tried everything with sd over the years! Rewards, punishments, encouragement, make her clean up her own shit, throw away panties, make her buy her own panties, make her not wear panties, talking, everything! nothing had worked! SD does not care at all that there's shit in her pants! She will sit in it for HOURS until someone tells her to go clean herself! She never once has taken the incentive to take care of it on her own before being asked! She hides poopy panties with solid turds in them for weeks. She sat on my mom's lap opening Christmas presents this year with poop in her pants the WHOLE time! And it smells!!! everyone knows she's done it, yet she doesn't care at all! DH says there's nothing we can do, i say that's bullshit, she's almost 11! bm tries to blame it on "gluten" or the next week she's "lactose intolerance" or the next week it's some other thing.... no it's not! she's new tested for everything and is perfectly healthy! she's NEVER done it at school, or during the night! bm never potty trained her cuz she's a druggie and doesn't give a shit about her kids! but now I'm so over it! grow the f up SD! you're almost 11! you're playing games and doing the grossest thing ever for attention!!!! we have a DD2 that we're potty training and she he less "accidents" then SD! And I'm having a baby ANY day now....i don't have time to deal with this crap!
what's your situation? what have you tried? has anything worked? what have doctors/ counselors said?
someone replied to my previous post and said wtf is our future going to be like when these kids grow up, they're too lazy to go to the bathroom!!!! I couldn't agree more, I'm so scared for these kids to be adults! I think we will have the biggest depression EVER IN HISTORY when these lazy, spoiled, entitled brats have to actually work!