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Well I want to thank everyone for their suggestions about my two step daughters who have driven me slowly crazy. I have been working on being more assertive, and especially on saying "no". So far so good. Now another question...my kids do not like the SD's. At all. I don't really blame them, though I am sure my feelings about them have colored their feelings. Anyway, my daughter is going to get married next year and she does not want these girls (19 and 25) at her wedding. I can see that this is going to be a problem. Suggestions?
its her wedding, she can
its her wedding, she can invite whoever her wedding. the sd's probably wouldnt go anyway. If your dh doesnt understand that then he has some double standards, odds are that if the sd was getting married and didnt invite you it would be fine with him.
I don't think she should
I don't think she should invite them if she does not want them there. It is her day, and it is totally in her right to not want drama on her day. I'm sure they won't be happy about it, but so be it.
On the flip side, if someone
On the flip side, if someone didn't invite my kids...I wouldn't go on principle. Family is family....unless one of the sk is a molester or violent criminal...seems real petty to not include them.