Hi there! I'm wondering if anyone has any insight or has experienced this before. My husband and I, our kids and my stepson are covered under my insurance through my employer. His insurance is a very limited plan and this is why we opt for mine. BM abandoned stepson with us 8 years ago and custody was amended to joint custody with my husband having sole physical. He and his ex were never married. BM went no contact for over a year and her parenting time was suspended. She just recently obtained visitation back in November 2018 and has used every opportunity available to torment us and try to alienate SS from us and his brothers. She is now asking for my insurance information and all of the doctors SS sees. I feel that she should not be able to obtain my insurance information, since she is not a plan member, and because it is in my name, not my husband's. My husband called the courts who said she can ask, and they can send a lettee asking us to give it to her, but we are nor required to do so and there is no law stating we have to. If she seeks medical treatment for him, it would be at her own expense, and then she could seek reimbursement just like we could for unreimbursed medical expenses. The thing is, he has always gone to the doctor, dentist and vision doctors. He has actually already been to all three this year for checkups and for treatment. She has no reason to use my plan and hasnt needed to in almost a decade. He has always been on my insurance. I'm wondering if this has happened to anyone else, and if she does try to take him in for (unnecessary) treatment (because she is spiteful and a hypocondriac)...will the provider bill me as the guarantor, or her as the one seeking services? She is 32 years old, living off section 8 housing, food stamps, government medical insurance and disability for mental health issues. She is also a drug addict and is addicted to opiods.